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out
won
won
to-do-with
to-do-with
old-white-people
old-white-people
every-single-thing
every-single-thing
looking up
 looking up
white lady
 white lady
i want her
 i want her
im afraid
 im afraid
totally
 totally
swear
 swear
vest
 vest
dont
 dont
comb
 comb
gets
 gets
is going to be
 is going to be
anyway
 anyway
ago
 ago
say
 say
later
 later
want
 want
know
 know
minutes
 minutes
worth
 worth
hands
 hands
almost
 almost
fol
fol
fact
fact
aisle
aisle
bless
bless
sweater vest
sweater vest
comfort zone
comfort zone
yours
yours
yall
yall
usually
usually
their
their
proper
proper
talking
talking
excuse
excuse
pretty
pretty
shes
shes
i just
i just
my heart
my heart
needed
needed
how to braid
how to braid
surrounded
surrounded
went
went
hes
hes
excuse me
excuse me
give me
give me
offended
offended
tried
tried
afraid
afraid
beautiful black women
beautiful black women
because
because
battle
battle
natural hair
natural hair
whatever
whatever
just
just
different
different
omfg
omfg
sweater
sweater
do you
do you
people
people
tell me
tell me
this is
this is
feel
feel
like
like
i dont know
i dont know
sweet
sweet
please
please
really
really
this
this
read
read
look
look
mines
mines
tutorials
tutorials
used
used
use
use
product
product
products
products
african
african
for
for
still
still
lady
lady
notes
notes
times
times
zone
zone
what
what
miss
miss
the time
the time
saved
saved
you
you
new
new
thing
thing
they
they
make
make
tips
tips
picture
picture
the world
the world
them
them
notepad
notepad
she
she
will
will
day
day
means
means
african american
african american
account
account
tools
tools
total
total
daughter
daughter
can
can
shop
shop
him
him
braid
braid
who
who
create
create
step
step
looking
looking
her
her
create a
create a
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About an hour ago I was in Walmart looking for my conditioner because today is wash day for my hair As I'm looking for my product this older white lady approaches me and she says Excuse me miss Please don't be offended by this And usually when white people tell me not to be offended 9 times out of 10 whatever they are about to say is going to be offensive af Anyway she follows it up with My husband and I just recently won our custody battle with our foster daughter and she means the world to us She's a beautiful African American girl and her hair looks a lot like yours But I'm afraid because I don't know what to do with her hair It's a lot different from mines and our other children and we are at a total loss l've tried looking up the YouTube videos and my husband went to the braiding shops so they can teach him how to properly braid her hair but he's still pretty new and it will be a while before he gets used to it Do you have any tips you can give me? If you don't have the time it's okay really! I just needed a little advice because I want her to look beautiful Y'all swear I almost started crying on aisle 6 So for the last 30 minutes I spent my time talking to her and what products to use and how to properly detangle and comb her hair with the proper tools and what not to do with natural hair And I showed her a bunch of easier to fol- low natural hair tutorials on YouTube and saved them for her I also had to create a YouTube account for her so she could save it for later but omfg she was so sweet and I could tell that she listened to every single thing I had to say and she took little notes on her little notepad And what really filled my heart was the fact that her husband actually taking classes from African braiding shops And she showed me a picture of him wearing a little sweater vest and loafers in a little shop surrounded by beautiful black women showing him how to braid black hair and even the lady he's braiding on is guiding his hands And omfg Bless these old white people and their black daughter who l know have new loving parents because they are willing to step out of their comfort zone just to make her feel and look beautiful This is a little long but TOTALLY worth the read! Meme

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