And We created you in pairs Qur'an 788 I REALLY LOVE THIS STORY SUCH A GREAT LESSON My husband doesn't have a lot neither of us do We scrape and scrape to pay bills and put food in our bellies but after almost 2 years of dating we decided that we couldn't wait anymore so we didn't I wasn't even thinking about rings I just wanted to marry my best friend but he wouldn't have it He scraped up just enough money to buy me two matching rings from Pandora Sterling silver and CZ to be exact That's what sits on my ring finger and I am so in love with them - While we were purchasing my rings however another lady that was working there came over to help the lady selling them to us She said Y'all can you believe that some men get these as engagement rings? How pathetic When she said that I watched my now husband's face fall He already felt like a failure asking me again and again Are you sure you'll be happy with these? Are you sure this is okay? He was so upset at the idea of not making me happy enough and of me not wanting to marry him because my rings didn't cost enough money or weren't flashy enough - I said It isn't the ring that matters it is the love that goes into buying one that is We bought the rings and left Y'all I would have gotten married to this man if it had been a 25¢ gum ball machine ring When did our nation fall so far to think the only way a man can truly love a woman is if he buys her $3000+ jewelry and makes a public decree of his affection with said flashy ring? Sure they are nice sure the sentiment is wonderful and I'm not trying to cut down any of your experiences but when did it come to all that? Why do material possessions equate love?? - My husband was so afraid of me not wanting him because he couldn't afford a piece of jewelry He was afraid that the love I have for him would pale because he couldn't afford the wedding set I wanted The world has made it this way and it is so sad But here I am though Court-House married $130 ring set the love of my life by my side and happier than I could ever imagine ▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃▃ @abedalii 📝 Meme

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