Baseball, Dating, and Future: Dear future wife, it is okay to be
 strong and independent and be
 vulnerable at the same time.
 FB/IG:@Blackcitygirl
So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you, a single woman busy dating yourself and paying your own bills, what men do is none of your business right? Wrong. You see a lot of women have become so independent that when MEN offer to GIVE and DO for them they dismiss their offers, as if all men have an ulterior motive. For instance in the work place, she'll be carrying something heavy and he'll ask "do you need help?" she'll quickly say "no I'm fine" or he'll offer to open the door and she'll say "hey I can open my own doors" what this translates to him is "STAY AWAY FROM ME" whereas in your mind you're just showing how capable you are as a woman. Add to the fact sometimes you're tired and stressed and have on your screw face 😡I'm totally guilty of this btw so a few weeks ago no word of a lie, I decided to do an experiment, every time a guy offered to help I showed him a smile and instead of snapping I said "yeah sure thanks" let me tell you ladies the results have been ASTOUNDING in one month 1. I was carrying like 5 grocery bags on my way home, wearing no make up and a baseball cap and it was raining and a guy asked if I needed help w- my bags, normally I'd roll my eyes and think "he just thirsty" but I accepted and once he'd dropped off my bags he said "I've never done this before" 2. I got into an argument in a cheap hardware store over my headphones and a random guy intervened on my behalf, normally I'd have "given him the side eye" but I smiled and said thank you and he bought me a new pair of headphones 3. After smiling and getting into a convo with an older man one lunchtime, mid way through our convo he asked "what do you wanna eat I'll get you" I was floored!!! None of the guys above asked for my number! Nope there was no cleavage bearing "wink wink" sexually suggestive behavior, this was straight me being a warm and friendly version of myself. As strong and educated as you maybe it pays to be VULNERABLE in the presence of men. You may not need help and that man may not be your future husband but being open to men giving and doing for you starts in your SINGLE SEASON. Blackcitygirl

So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you, a single woman busy dating yourself and paying your own bills, what men do is none of your business right? Wrong. You see a lot of women have become so independent that when MEN offer to GIVE and DO for them they dismiss their offers, as if all men have an ulterior motive. For instance in the work place, she'll be carrying something heavy and he'll ask "do you need help?" she'll quickly say "no I'm fine" or he'll offer to open the door and she'll say "hey I can open my own doors" what this translates to him is "STAY AWAY FROM ME" whereas in your mind you're just showing how capable you are as a woman. Add to the fact sometimes you're tired and stressed and have on your screw face 😡I'm totally guilty of this btw so a few weeks ago no word of a lie, I decided to do an experiment, every time a guy offered to help I showed him a smile and instead of snapping I said "yeah sure thanks" let me tell you ladies the results have been ASTOUNDING in one month 1. I was carrying like 5 grocery bags on my way home, wearing no make up and a baseball cap and it was raining and a guy asked if I needed help w- my bags, normally I'd roll my eyes and think "he just thirsty" but I accepted and once he'd dropped off my bags he said "I've never done this before" 2. I got into an argument in a cheap hardware store over my headphones and a random guy intervened on my behalf, normally I'd have "given him the side eye" but I smiled and said thank you and he bought me a new pair of headphones 3. After smiling and getting into a convo with an older man one lunchtime, mid way through our convo he asked "what do you wanna eat I'll get you" I was floored!!! None of the guys above asked for my number! Nope there was no cleavage bearing "wink wink" sexually suggestive behavior, this was straight me being a warm and friendly version of myself. As strong and educated as you maybe it pays to be VULNERABLE in the presence of men. You may not need help and that man may not be your future husband but being open to men giving and doing for you starts in your SINGLE SEASON. Blackcitygirl

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Baseball
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Future
Life
Life
Love
Love
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memes
Thirsty
Thirsty
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Work
Thank You
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Future Wife
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 lunchtime
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 husbands
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 sayings
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through
through
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fact
there
there
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experiment
guilty
guilty
roll
roll
btw
btw
screw
screw
ill
ill
their
their
randomizer
randomizer
maybe
maybe
same
same
cheap
cheap
suggestive
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as if
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none of your business
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for instance
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what do you
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convo
every time
every time
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my eyes
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needed
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im fine
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random guy
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raining
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myself
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thank
away
away
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dismissive
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stressed
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smiling
sometimes
sometimes
warm
warm
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ulterior motive
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eyes
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guys
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facee
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get
this
this
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side
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tiredness
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straight
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dear
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bags
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fine
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your own
baseball cap
baseball cap
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presence
argument
argument
can opener
can opener
for
for
womanizer
womanizer
store
store
what
what
bearing
bearing
stay
stay
lie
lie
door
door
you
you
new
new
aed
aed
cleavage
cleavage
they
they
make
make
face
face
all
all
them
them
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woman
own
own
hardware
hardware
cap
cap
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think
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motive
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man
man
may
may
my way
my way
one
one
doors
doors
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dears
wink
wink
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can
him
him
once
once
random
random
the doors
the doors
eye
eye
add
add
ask
ask
shell
shell
got
got
how
how
🤖
🤖
Bills
Bills
Been
Been
Accepted
Accepted
On My Way
On My Way
Single
Single
Never
Never
Mind
Mind
Hell
Hell
Strong
Strong
Wife
Wife
Husband
Husband
Nope
Nope
Word
Word
Women
Women
Time
Time
Smile
Smile
Okay
Okay
Home
Home
Help
Help
Headphones
Headphones
Business
Business
Affect
Affect
Thank You
Thank You
Work
Work
yeah
yeah
Thirsty
Thirsty
memes
memes
Love
Love
Life
Life
Future
Future
Dating
Dating
Baseball
Baseball

Dear future wife it is okay to be strong and independent and be vulnerable at the same time FBIG@Blackcitygirl So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you a single woman busy dating yourself and paying your own bills what men do is none of your business right? Wrong You see a lot of women have become so independent that when MEN offer to GIVE and DO for them they dismiss their offers as if all men have an ulterior motive For instance in the work place she'll be carrying something heavy and he'll ask do you need help? she'll quickly say no I'm fine or he'll offer to open the door and she'll say hey I can open my own doors what this translates to him is STAY AWAY FROM ME whereas in your mind you're just showing how capable you are as a woman Add to the fact sometimes you're tired and stressed and have on your screw face 😡I'm totally guilty of this btw so a few weeks ago no word of a lie I decided to do an experiment every time a guy offered to help I showed him a smile and instead of snapping I said yeah sure thanks let me tell you ladies the results have been ASTOUNDING in one month 1 I was carrying like 5 grocery bags on my way home wearing no make up and a baseball cap and it was raining and a guy asked if I needed help w- my bags normally I'd roll my eyes and think he just thirsty but I accepted and once he'd dropped off my bags he said I've never done this before 2 I got into an argument in a cheap hardware store over my headphones and a random guy intervened on my behalf normally I'd have given him the side eye but I smiled and said thank you and he bought me a new pair of headphones 3 After smiling and getting into a convo with an older man one lunchtime mid way through our convo he asked what do you wanna eat I'll get you I was floored!!! None of the guys above asked for my number! Nope there was no cleavage bearing wink wink sexually suggestive behavior this was straight me being a warm and friendly version of myself As strong and educated as you maybe it pays to be VULNERABLE in the presence of men You may not need help and that man may not be your future husband but being open to men giving and doing for you starts in your SINGLE SEASON Blackcitygirl Meme

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