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Fifty Shades Of Grey Gets Bondage All Wrong This Girl Nails It Many women do not agree with me on this subject but it's important submitted 22 hours ago * by ahhidk x6 With Fifty Shades of Grey being made into a movie I've tried to raise awareness how this book is not about BDSM but rather domestic and sexual abuse Many women argue that the relationship in the book is BDSM but that paints BDSM in a bac light BDSM is a community that believes in safety & comfort Consent is always necessary and partners take care of each other After acts and role plays partners comfort each other to help transition out of that zone FSOG does not include any of this Mr Grey gives Anastasia a then-virgin an ultimatum to sign a contract or leave She is sexually inexperienced being a virgin and he manipulates that to push her boundaries to make it seem like the sexually violent things he is doing to her are okay There are instances where after an act he is mad at her for being upset but does not comfort her He uses alcohol to sway her consent this is by law rape There is also an instance where she uses the safe word yet he continues That is consent being retracted and Christian ignores the retraction of consent That is sexual assault Those are not the only problematic instances Anastasia begins to hide things in fear of Christian's anger He becomes jealous and easily angered Anastasia fears for her safety Experts have even matched her behavior with that of abused women in accordance with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's description of partner violence This book completely throws people who participate in BDSM completely under the bus by misrepresenting BDSM as a whole Bad people do sneak into BDSM to find a way to escape persecution for their violent ways but the majority of those in BDSM are not abusive like this book would have you believe This book romanticizes and fetishizes abuse and painting abuse in a 'sexy' and 'fun' light is really dangerous for women 1 in 5 women will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime that's why this book should not be defended Making this behavior seem okay to accept from a man is dangerous and people will be influenced to dabble in 'BDSM' but not have an actual idea of what it is and they will get hurt It is up to every individual what they want to read never anyone else The point of this post is to point out how FSOG is problematic not to police anyone's reading habits I know many women and men defend this book and don't understand how it can be seen as abuse but it is And I hope more awareness will be raised so this does not influence others lorrainelola My friend wrote this article on Reddit and it is now going viral everywhere She really did nail it Reblog the shit out of this and spread it like wildfire! Meme

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