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Jessica Liebman ajessicaliebman Follow Hey I wrote something! I've been hiring people for 10 years and I still swear bya simple rule If someone doesn't send a thank you email don't hire them I've been hiring people for 10 years and I still swear by a simple rule if s An executive managing editor who has hired hundreds of people believes candidates who send thank you emails show they want the job businessinsidercom Muging M Zhang @muqingmzhang Follow White people's fixation on inconsequential social norms is a way to structurally keep out non-white people who lack the cultural capital and privilege to know every one of these inane social rules we're supposed to perform to be granted the jobs and resources we fucking deserve Jessica Liebman @jessicaliebman Hey I wrote something! I've been hiring people for 10 years and I still swear by a simple rule If someone doesn't send a thank you email don't hire them businessinsidercomhow-to-write-t Muqing M Zhang @muqingmzhang Follow As people who lack white or class privilege know not possessing this cultural capital causes intense anxiety and alienation Networking events office small talk interviews are often dreadful experiences bc we're being judged according to rules that were set up for us to fail Muqing M Zhang @muqingmzhang Follow Everyone who has experienced the dread & anxiety of being in a room full of privileged white people and literally not knowing what they're talking about and second guessing everything you do knows that these proper politeness rules are just a way to alienate & marginalize us Muqing M Zhang Follow muingmzhang These social norms of the dominant group create intense emotional strain for marginalized peoples They cause immense mental labor for us to learn and mimic these behaviors fear that resources will be withheld and anxiety when we can't contort ourselves to fit their demands smaug-official uncommonbishTHISTHISTHIS and linguistic prescriptivism also falls into this category Completely pointless historically arbitrary way to keep TALENT + MERIT as secondary qualifiers “First impressions matter” my ass Get Gen Xs out of hiring positions Bizarre social rules like these are literally so detrimental to autistic people trying to find work I already struggle enough with the basics of social etiquette I don’t need weird rules like these to follow… Meme

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