MYTH #6 He Loses Control of Himself He Just Goes Wild Many Years Ago I Was Interviewing a Woman Named Sheila by Telephone She Was Describing the Rages Have He Just Goes Absolutely Berserk and Ing to Go Off Like That He'll Just Start Grabbing Whatever Is Around and Throwing It He Heaves Stuff Everywhere Against the Walls on the Floor- It's Just a Mess and He Smashes Stuff Important Things Sometimes Then Client Michael wOuld Periodically That My Know When He's Never You Go- It's Like the Storm Just Passes He Calms dowWn and He Leaves for a While Later He Seems Kind of Ashamed of Himself I Asked Sheila Two Questions the First Was When Things Got Broken Were They Michael's or Hers or Things That Belonged to Both of Them? She Left a Considerable Silence While She Thought Then She Said You Know What? I'm Amazed That I've Never Thought of This but He Only Breaks My Stuff I Can't Think of One Thing He's Smashed That Belonged to Him Next I Asked Her Who Cleans Up the Mess She Answered That She Does I Commented See Michael's Behavior Isn't Nearly as Berserk as It Looks and if He Really Felt So Remorseful He'd Help Clean Up FUck