olofahere Do not punish the behaviour you want to see l mean it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that right? But how many families when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize snarkily say So you've decided to join us? Or when someone does something they've had trouble doing say Why can't you do that al the time? Happened to me too often Or any sentence containing the word finally If someone makes a step a small step in a direction you want to encourage encourage it Don't complain about how it's not enough Don't bring up previous stuff Encourage it Because motivation-crushing than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished Source olofahere there is nothing more soul-killing more 15684 notes Meme

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