Advice, Confidence, and Energy: punk
 @NUEPORTS
 i took the same energy i used to hate
 myself and turned it into confidence
 that's how you recycle
 9/30/17, 3:35 AM
 194 RETWEETS 401 LIKES
naamahdarling:
mediokurrr:

catastrofries:


mediokurrr:

Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

So far for me it’s been something like:
1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down. 
2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up. 
3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.
4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.
5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.” 
Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.
I hope any of that made sense.


This is great advice @catastrofries 

Sincerely, this is the best advice.  It’s easy to dismiss it and say “That would never help!” but, like, if you try it, you might be surprised.

naamahdarling: mediokurrr: catastrofries: mediokurrr: Can i get a step by step on how to do this? So far for me it’s been something like: 1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down. 2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up. 3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it. 4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start. 5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.” Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime. I hope any of that made sense. This is great advice @catastrofries Sincerely, this is the best advice. It’s easy to dismiss it and say “That would never help!” but, like, if you try it, you might be surprised.

punk @NUEPORTS i took the same energy i used to hate myself and turned it into confidence that's how you recycle 93017 335 AM 194 RETWEETS 401 LIKES naamahdarling mediokurrr catastrofries mediokurrr Can i get a step by step on how to do this? So far for me it’s been something like 1 Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down 2 Now that you can catch yourself doing it Offer counters to the negative self talk A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child Gentle and patient Even when they fuck up 3 Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better Celebrate it 4 Make lists of things you’re good at like about yourself The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends It was start 5 Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4 It’s counter productive When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem” Most of the time that seems to work Not always But more and more Everytime I hope any of that made sense This is great advice @catastrofries Sincerely this is the best advice It’s easy to dismiss it and say “That would never help!” but like if you try it you might be surprised Meme

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