Children, Family, and Girls: squ33ble
 legally-bitchtastic
 catch-the-ghost
 monsterkissed
 here is an idea: normalise the idea that adopting kids is a valid
 option even for parents who could conceive a child
 themselves, and not just an inferior backup option for parents
 who can't
 Yesterday one of the girls in the unit who's about my age was
 complaining about her period and expressing a wish for the doctors
 nearby to "Just take me down to the OR real quick and give me a
 hysterectomy."
 Immediately half the nurses (all mothers mind you) start telling her
 about how she's gonna regret it and she doesn't know yet if she
 really doesn't want kids, blah blah blalh
 Anyways, I was walking past so l said, "You know what, you do what
 you want. If you want end up wanting kids later go adopt some,
 we've got plenty that get left behind on the second floor [our labor
 and delivery unit]."
 All the older nurses shut down so fast and the girl I was talking to
 suddenly threw up her hands and me and said, "See??? That's what
 l mean! THANK YOU."
 NORMALIZE THIS SHIT!! WE REALLY DO HAVE WOMEN COME
 INTO L&D TO HAVE A BABY AND THEN JUST LEAVE IT HERE
 AND TAKE OFF.
 ADOPT!!!
 Also, don't ask the parents of adopted children if they had fertility
 problems. That shit is personal. My sister adopted her son and when
 asked if she is infertile, she likes to ask them what position their children
 were conceived with, because that's on the same level of
 appropriateness
 Like, some people really DO want to experience pregnancy on their own, but
 that's not the only way to be a parent? On the other hand, some people want
 kids but DON'T want to be pregnant themselves. Adoption is awesome
 Birthing a baby is awesome. Hiring a surrogate is awesome. Stop judging
 parental options, as long as the kids are safe and well taken care of!
Family is a choice

Family is a choice

Children
Children
family
family
Girls
Girls
Parents
Parents
period
period
pregnant
pregnant
Regret
Regret
shit
shit
Taken
Taken
Thank You
Thank You
Ghost
Ghost
Girl
Girl
Kids
Kids
Left Behind
Left Behind
Mean
Mean
Pregnancy
Pregnancy
Women
Women
Awesome
Awesome
Experience
Experience
Mind
Mind
Mothers
Mothers
The Unit
The Unit
All The
All The
Baby
Baby
how
how
got
got
personal
personal
idea
idea
ask
ask
her
her
who
who
the doctors
the doctors
one
one
down
down
options
options
safe
safe
fast
fast
she
she
hysterectomy
hysterectomy
own
own
them
them
all
all
they
they
yesterday
yesterday
you
you
real
real
doctors
doctors
level
level
son
son
what
what
for
for
child
child
surrogate
surrogate
backup
backup
option
option
unit
unit
fertility
fertility
this
this
get
get
really
really
stop
stop
like
like
parent
parent
people
people
quick
quick
likes
likes
well
well
suddenly
suddenly
walking
walking
delivery
delivery
immediately
immediately
hand
hand
just
just
then
then
blah
blah
because
because
end
end
what you want
what you want
give me
give me
and then
and then
shut down
shut down
complaining
complaining
blah blah
blah blah
judging
judging
thank
thank
shut
shut
gonna
gonna
anyways
anyways
on the other hand
on the other hand
take off
take off
take me
take me
legally
legally
do what you want
do what you want
shes
shes
same
same
talking
talking
their
their
labor
labor
were
were
inferior
inferior
valid
valid
you know what
you know what
care
 care
see
 see
hands
 hands
way
 way
come
 come
know
 know
left
 left
want
 want
yet
 yet
later
 later
problems
 problems
said
 said
dont
 dont
catch
 catch
my sister
 my sister
just take me
 just take me
take me down
 take me down
taken care of
 taken care of
sister
sister
That Shit
That Shit
Off
Off
Want Kids
Want Kids
Do Want
Do Want
Leave
Leave
And
And
Other
Other
You Know
You Know
Here
Here
Cant
Cant
Wish
Wish
Age
Age
When
When
Choice
Choice
Older
Older
That
That
Adoption
Adoption
Nurses
Nurses
This Shit
This Shit
Parental
Parental
But
But
Not
Not
Labor And Delivery
Labor And Delivery
Give
Give
The
The
Not The
Not The
Long
Long
Do What
Do What
Just Leave
Just Leave
What You Do
What You Do
Past
Past
Adopted
Adopted
You Do
You Do
Take
Take
L Mean
L Mean
Start
Start
Dont Want To
Dont Want To
Mind You
Mind You
Know What
Know What
Behind
Behind
Thats
Thats
Was
Was
With
With
Half
Half
Our
Our
Are
Are
Have
Have
If You
If You
Threw
Threw
Had
Had
I Was
I Was
Thats What
Thats What
Also
Also
Floor
Floor
Thats Not
Thats Not
Only
Only
About
About
Plenty
Plenty
Position
Position
Some People
Some People
Wanting
Wanting
Second
Second
Expressing
Expressing
Telling
Telling
Themselves
Themselves
Even
Even
Some
Some
Adopt
Adopt
Could
Could
Family Is
Family Is
Conceived
Conceived
Leave It
Leave It
The Same
The Same
If She
If She
A Child
A Child
And Me
And Me
Be A Parent
Be A Parent
Because Thats
Because Thats
Birthing
Birthing
But Thats
But Thats
But Thats Not
But Thats Not
Dont Ask
Dont Ask
Dont Want
Dont Want
For The
For The
Give Me A
Give Me A
Have A Baby
Have A Baby
Have A
Have A
Hiring
Hiring
In The
In The
Infertile
Infertile
Into
Into
Is A
Is A
My Age
My Age
Real Quick
Real Quick
Funny
Funny
birth
birth
Labor Day Memes
Labor Day Memes
child labor
child labor
Pain
Pain
Pregnancy
Pregnancy
giving birth
 giving birth
Waiting...
Waiting...
pregnant
pregnant
Baby
Baby
Wife
Wife
funny memes
funny memes
Labor Pain
Labor Pain
Fishing
Fishing
Day Weekend
Day Weekend
Air Current
Air Current
Aired
Aired
Attentation
Attentation
Feveral
Feveral
diapers
 diapers
andie
 andie
moves
 moves
wifes
 wifes
two
 two
at the same time
 at the same time
week
 week
normality
normality
import
import
reasons
reasons
democratic
democratic
based
based
helpful
helpful
exploit
exploit
ons
ons
methodical
methodical
heavenly
heavenly
their
their
hombre
hombre
work hard
work hard
overeating
overeating
surviving
surviving
make sense
make sense
suicidal
suicidal
for education
for education
welfare
welfare
dia
dia
🤖
🤖
Pokemon GO
Pokemon GO
Sued
Sued
Happiness
Happiness
White
White
Labor Day
Labor Day
Pokemon
Pokemon
memes
memes
dank
dank
Church
Church
America
America
America
America
Church
Church
dank
dank
memes
memes
Pokemon
Pokemon
Labor Day
Labor Day
White
White
Happiness
Happiness
Sued
Sued
Pokemon GO
Pokemon GO
🤖
🤖
dia
dia
welfare
welfare
for education
for education
suicidal
suicidal
make sense
make sense
surviving
surviving
overeating
overeating
work hard
work hard
hombre
hombre
their
their
heavenly
heavenly
methodical
methodical
ons
ons
exploit
exploit
helpful
helpful
based
based
democratic
democratic
reasons
reasons
import
import
normality
normality
week
 week
at the same time
 at the same time
two
 two
wifes
 wifes
moves
 moves
andie
 andie
diapers
 diapers
Feveral
Feveral
Attentation
Attentation
Aired
Aired
Air Current
Air Current
Day Weekend
Day Weekend
Fishing
Fishing
Labor Pain
Labor Pain
funny memes
funny memes
Wife
Wife
Baby
Baby
pregnant
pregnant
Waiting...
Waiting...
giving birth
 giving birth
Pregnancy
Pregnancy
Pain
Pain
child labor
child labor
Labor Day Memes
Labor Day Memes
birth
birth
Funny
Funny
Real Quick
Real Quick
My Age
My Age
Is A
Is A
Into
Into
Infertile
Infertile
In The
In The
Hiring
Hiring
Have A
Have A
Have A Baby
Have A Baby
Give Me A
Give Me A
For The
For The
Dont Want
Dont Want
Dont Ask
Dont Ask
But Thats Not
But Thats Not
But Thats
But Thats
Birthing
Birthing
Because Thats
Because Thats
Be A Parent
Be A Parent
And Me
And Me
A Child
A Child
If She
If She
The Same
The Same
Leave It
Leave It
Conceived
Conceived
Family Is
Family Is
Could
Could
Adopt
Adopt
Some
Some
Even
Even
Themselves
Themselves
Telling
Telling
Expressing
Expressing
Second
Second
Wanting
Wanting
Some People
Some People
Position
Position
Plenty
Plenty
About
About
Only
Only
Thats Not
Thats Not
Floor
Floor
Also
Also
Thats What
Thats What
I Was
I Was
Had
Had
Threw
Threw
If You
If You
Have
Have
Are
Are
Our
Our
Half
Half
With
With
Was
Was
Thats
Thats
Behind
Behind
Know What
Know What
Mind You
Mind You
Dont Want To
Dont Want To
Start
Start
L Mean
L Mean
Take
Take
You Do
You Do
Adopted
Adopted
Past
Past
What You Do
What You Do
Just Leave
Just Leave
Do What
Do What
Long
Long
Not The
Not The
The
The
Give
Give
Labor And Delivery
Labor And Delivery
Not
Not
But
But
Parental
Parental
This Shit
This Shit
Nurses
Nurses
Adoption
Adoption
That
That
Older
Older
Choice
Choice
When
When
Age
Age
Wish
Wish
Cant
Cant
Here
Here
You Know
You Know
Other
Other
And
And
Leave
Leave
Do Want
Do Want
Want Kids
Want Kids
Off
Off
That Shit
That Shit
sister
sister
taken care of
 taken care of
take me down
 take me down
just take me
 just take me
my sister
 my sister
catch
 catch
dont
 dont
said
 said
problems
 problems
later
 later
yet
 yet
want
 want
left
 left
know
 know
come
 come
way
 way
hands
 hands
see
 see
care
 care
you know what
you know what
valid
valid
inferior
inferior
were
were
labor
labor
their
their
talking
talking
same
same
shes
shes
do what you want
do what you want
legally
legally
take me
take me
take off
take off
on the other hand
on the other hand
anyways
anyways
gonna
gonna
shut
shut
thank
thank
judging
judging
blah blah
blah blah
complaining
complaining
shut down
shut down
and then
and then
give me
give me
what you want
what you want
end
end
because
because
blah
blah
then
then
just
just
hand
hand
immediately
immediately
delivery
delivery
walking
walking
suddenly
suddenly
well
well
likes
likes
quick
quick
people
people
parent
parent
like
like
stop
stop
really
really
get
get
this
this
fertility
fertility
unit
unit
option
option
backup
backup
surrogate
surrogate
child
child
for
for
what
what
son
son
level
level
doctors
doctors
real
real
you
you
yesterday
yesterday
they
they
all
all
them
them
own
own
hysterectomy
hysterectomy
she
she
fast
fast
safe
safe
options
options
down
down
one
one
the doctors
the doctors
who
who
her
her
ask
ask
idea
idea
personal
personal
got
got
how
how
Baby
Baby
All The
All The
The Unit
The Unit
Mothers
Mothers
Mind
Mind
Experience
Experience
Awesome
Awesome
Women
Women
Pregnancy
Pregnancy
Mean
Mean
Left Behind
Left Behind
Kids
Kids
Girl
Girl
Ghost
Ghost
Thank You
Thank You
Taken
Taken
shit
shit
Regret
Regret
pregnant
pregnant
period
period
Parents
Parents
Girls
Girls
family
family
Children
Children

squ33ble legally-bitchtastic catch-the-ghost monsterkissed here is an idea normalise the idea that adopting kids is a valid option even for parents who could conceive a child themselves and not just an inferior backup option for parents who can't Yesterday one of the girls in the unit who's about my age was complaining about her period and expressing a wish for the doctors nearby to Just take me down to the OR real quick and give me a hysterectomy Immediately half the nurses all mothers mind you start telling her about how she's gonna regret it and she doesn't know yet if she really doesn't want kids blah blah blalh Anyways I was walking past so l said You know what you do what you want If you want end up wanting kids later go adopt some we've got plenty that get left behind on the second floor our labor and delivery unit All the older nurses shut down so fast and the girl I was talking to suddenly threw up her hands and me and said See??? That's what l mean! THANK YOU NORMALIZE THIS SHIT!! WE REALLY DO HAVE WOMEN COME INTO L&D TO HAVE A BABY AND THEN JUST LEAVE IT HERE AND TAKE OFF ADOPT!!! Also don't ask the parents of adopted children if they had fertility problems That shit is personal My sister adopted her son and when asked if she is infertile she likes to ask them what position their children were conceived with because that's on the same level of appropriateness Like some people really DO want to experience pregnancy on their own but that's not the only way to be a parent? On the other hand some people want kids but DON'T want to be pregnant themselves Adoption is awesome Birthing a baby is awesome Hiring a surrogate is awesome Stop judging parental options as long as the kids are safe and well taken care of! Family is a choice Meme

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