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Lazy Parents
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And
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Young
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Take The Trash Out
Struggle Is Real
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Badasses
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over
over
out
out
won
won
out-the-door
out-the-door
end of the month
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pretty much
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appointment
 appointment
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the way
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 hurting
small
 small
again
 again
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 favor
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 busy
hurt
 hurt
late
 late
bag
 bag
so much
 so much
much
 much
year
 year
instead
 instead
month
 month
want
 want
need
 need
minutes
 minutes
worth
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 hard
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 better
things
 things
see
 see
gift
 gift
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 over it
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 determination
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capable
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edges
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handles
too
too
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allow
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brooke
dishes
dishes
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their
same
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everything
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just
perfect
perfect
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worth it
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room
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damn
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poor
greatest
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parent
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13 Year Old
13 Year Old
Mom
Mom
Responsibility
Responsibility
Rough
Rough
Old
Old
Harsh
Harsh
Watch
Watch
Tsunami
Tsunami
Time
Time
Space
Space
Patience
Patience
Kids
Kids
House
House
Help
Help
Dish
Dish
Budget
Budget
Breakfast
Breakfast
Break
Break
Summer
Summer
Control
Control
yeah
yeah
Trash
Trash
The Struggle is Real
The Struggle is Real
Taken
Taken
Struggle
Struggle
Parents
Parents
Love
Love
lol
lol
Life
Life
Lazy
Lazy
FAIL
FAIL
Energy
Energy
dank
dank
Children
Children

SUMMER 2K18 Lazy parents raise better kids I posted a photo of our 13-year-old doing her end-of-the-month calculations She handles our household grocery budget each month I was shocked at how many messages I got telling me she was too young to have so much responsibility They labeled me a lazy mom and I took it as a compliment though I’m not sure that’s how it was meant lol I’m purposefully lazy and my kids are thriving because of it I have more energy than most I could easily handle everything for them but I don’t because I want them to learn to do it for themselves I love the harsh judgmental looks and comments I get from other parents when they see my kids doing things deemed “too hard” for them “What a lazy mom Those poor kids” they whisper Yeah well they can judge me all they want but I’m preparing my kids to not need me And I personally believe that’s the greatest gift I can give them I think we severely underestimate our children They are far more capable and dependable than we will allow them to be Most of us are over-scheduled control freaks and we don’t create the time we need to let our kids try and fail and then try again We’re too busy to be lazy and it’s hurting our kids Children that are treated like they are capable become capable And it starts smallit starts with the toddler who wants to help do the dishes and you end up with a tsunami in your dish room or the 4-year-old who wants to take the trash out when you’re on your way out the door-- it takes 20 minutes instead of the 2 it would have taken you because the trash bag is the same size as them it got a hole in it 'cause it was dragging the ground and you pretty much have to sanitize their whole body now 'cause they’ve somehow managed to touch every part of the trash bag Now you’re late for your appointment but your kid is feeling empowered and damn it that needs to be worth it It takes patience and determination to be a lazy parent Because the way they do it won’t be perfect at first -- they’ll make ungodly messes it will be crooked and mismatched things will break and it will likely take 4 times longer than if you just did it yourself And it’s hard to watch them struggle we love them and we want to make life easy for them But life isn’t easy it’s f*cking hard and we are doing them a great disservice when we don’t let them struggle and prove to themselves that they are little badasses I've noticed a lot of people wait because they are going to get hurt they don’t have time or they like their house to stay looking magazine worthy -- and a 3-year-old learning to organize their own space or make their own breakfast has rough edges The struggle is real but you simply need to get over it because raising capable adults doesn’t start at age 16 when they can’t do anything for themselves it starts at age 3 when they need you to back off and let them make a tsunami in your dish room Do yourself and your kids a favor and be a lazy parent Back off and let them try Brooke Hampton lazy mom of three wildly capable humans via Barefoot Five Meme

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