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Women of America Take Off Your Wedding Rings A belief that women are extensions of male desire is a spectrunm Kill it at home Posted Sep 29 2018 PhD Stepmonster f SHARE TWEET EMAIL MORE The past week's passion play of amped up masculinity and privilege-Brett Kavanaugh's Yalie frat-bro entitlement melding into Lindsey Graham's southern good old boy BS-was a performance of white male entitlement in crisis The long and short of it was that Kavanaugh and his ideological foot soldiers were outraged-outraged-that he was being called on to answer questions about sexual violence he had allegedly committed several decades ago Consider for a moment what it means to be outraged at learning that if you wanted a position that would sway the ideological and judicial tenor of the country for years to come you would have to answer questions about whether you had in fact assaulted her Imagine being infuriated by that requirement Imagine being contemptuous dismissive and hostile toward those who were asking you questions about your past conduct toward that woman and women Imagine feeling so contemptuous in fact that you turned the questions onto them Have you ever blacked out? Imagine acting as it you were being persecuted unfairly rather than called to account for what you had or had not done Imagine asserting over and over in an explicit dog whistle to men across the country that you like beer that you love beer that you drink beer that you always drank beer that you will continue to drink beer-as a way of saying F-you I have no regrets and wil offer no apologies and will not make the slightest effort to comport myself in a seemly way before this body of enators because you are illegit-because no one should be questioning me The undergirding of Kavanaugh's angry attacks and Graham's performative tantrum is the idea that it doesn't matter so much what men have done the real thing is what they have become And the corollary to that notion is that what happens to women in that process matt man has come out on top than the fact that the Women of America i about female autonomy begins at home Telling women that their selves and their bodies are things for men is a spectrum It lives in the space between being married compulsory monogamy the wage gap getting away with harassment at work and assault and rape But wait What does your wedding ring have to do with it? ime to take off your wedding rings Re-education What happens when you marry? You become his-and he yours ideally i the companionate model of marriage we believe in here And yet What happens on the ground? You take his name subsuming your identity into his You might even still be called in some contexts Mrs John Jones rather than Ms Alice Smith If you keep your maiden name things get complicated -letters and packages don't get delivered there may be jokes about your independence people get confused or people call you by his last name because it's easier That's code for It makes more sense Small things Microaggressions against your autonomy Containment strategies that make it easier to just take his name And all that it implies about belonging and ownership got fed up copypasting here rest of article is same blah blah Meme

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