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Germany, Women, and British: British Women T-posing to assert dominance over Germany (1944)

British Women T-posing to assert dominance over Germany (1944)

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Dad, Grandma, and Head: Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery On yeah, every time that dad forgets mom is dead, we head to the cemetery so he can see her gravestone. WHAT I can't tell you how many times I've heard some version of this awful story. Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery Seniously, I cringe every single time someone tells me about their plan" to remind a loved one that their loved one is dead I also hear this a lot: 1 keep reminding mom that her sister is dead, and sometimes she recalls it once I've said it. That's still not a good thing. Why are we trying to force people to remember that their loved ones have passed away? If your loved one with dementia has lost track of their timeline, and forgoten that a loved one is dead, don't remind them. What's the point of reintroducing that kind of pain? Here's the thing they will forget again, and they will ask again. You're never, ever, ever, going to "convince them of something permanently Instead, do this Dad, where do you think mom is? When he tells you the answer, repeat that answer to him and assert that it sounds correct. For example, it he says, "1 think mom is at work,"say, "Yes, that sounds right, I think she must be at work. it he says, 1 think she passed away say, Yes, she passed away People like the answer that they gave you. Also, it takes you off the hook to come up with something" that satisfies them. Then, twenty minutes later when they ask where mom is, repeat what they originally told you drgaellon I support this sentiment. Repeatedly reminding someone with faulty memory that a loved one has died isn't a kindness, it's a cruelty. They have to relieve the loss every time, even if they don't remember the grief 15 minutes later In other words, don't try to impose your timeline on them in order to make yourself feel better. Correcting an afflicted dementia patient will not cure them They won't magically return to your real world'. No matter how much you might want them to. It's a kindness of old age, forgetting. Life can be very painful. Don't be the one ripping off the bandage every single time prismatic-bell I used to work as a companion in a nursing home where one of the patients was CONVINCED I was her sister, who'd died 40 years earlier. And every time one of the nurses said דhat's not Janet, Janet is dead, Alice, remember?" Alice would start sobbing So finally one day Alice did the whole JANET IS HERE and this nurse rather nastily went Janet is dead and before it could go any furtherI said "excuse mer?? How dare you say something so horrible to my sister?" The nurse was pissed, because I was feeding Alice's delusions. Alice didn't have delusions. Alice had Alzheimer's. But I made sure it went into Alice's chart that she responded positively to being allowed to believe I was Janet. And from that point forward, only my specific patient referred to me as-Nina. in front of Alice-everyone else called me Janet. and when Alice said my name wasn't Nina I just said "oh, it's a nickname, that's all."It kept her calm and happy and not sobbing every time she saw me It costs zero dollars (and maybe a little bit of fast thinking) to not be an asshole to someone wah Alzheimer's or dementia. Be kind I wish I had heard this stuft when Grandma was still here satr9 I read once that you have to treat dementia patilents more like it's improv, like you have to take what they say and say to yourself ok, and" and give them more of a story to occupy them and not just shut it down with something super harsh A nurse I used to work with always told us: Tf a man with dementia is trying to get out of bed to go to work, don't tell him he's 90 and in a nursing home. Tell him it's Sunday and he can stay in bed. If a woman with dementia is trying to stand because she wants to get her husband's dinner out of the oven, don't tel her he's been dead for 20 years. Tell her you'll do for her and she can sit back down Always remembered that, always did it. Nothing worse than hearing someone with memory loss ask the same question over and over again only to be met with: "We already told youl" Just tell them again steel-phoenix I've worked with elderly dementia patients, and I agree with all the above. Treat them as you'd like to be treated in the same situation ruby-white-rabbit Same. I've worked with patients like these and even my grandma was convinced for a day that I was my aunt. Just roll with it lazulisong My go-to response to someone asking if I've seen a dead loved one is "I haven't seen them today, but if I do I'll let them know you were looking for them. Cause you know what, if I DID see them I wouild tell them, so it always comes out sounding truthtul Source dementiabyday.com 99.289 notes PSA for those whose loved ones have dementia
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Advice, Bad, and Chill: please use protection when doing the do, maybe also don't have sex with murderers ao3tagoftheday: nyocanada15: ao3tagoftheday: infinty-forest: ao3tagoftheday: [Image Description: Tags reading “please use protection when doing the do, maybe also don’t have sex with murderers”] The AO3 Tag of the Day is: “Don’t have sex with murderers” is an important safe sex tip #mod ej#death#violence#wear condoms for fucks sake#and don’t have sex with murderers#I mean#if you insist on having sex with murderers#please wear a condom while doing so#or get the murderer to wear a condom#whichever is applicable#although fuck that internal condoms are a thing#and you personally are responsible for your sexual health#but even if condoms are involved#fucking murderers is still a bad idea#don’t do it#this has been an absurdist episode of#mod ej gives advice#submissionOP’s tags are always a gift. I just realized I left out a really important piece of information:Some murderers will try to persuade you to have sex with them. They may do this by murdering people while shirtless and listening to classical music. They may also describe the feeling of murdering someone in suspiciously sensual terms. Some murderers may tell you they are tortured by their inner demons and that only your love can keep them from continuing their bloody rampage. Do not be fooled! Do not have sex with them, even if they smile in a predatory yet irresistibly attractive way! You have a right to assert yourself in defense of your own sexual health! What the fuck MOD EJ Friend. What kind of blog do you think you’re following, my dude? Why the fuck would you think I’m sane, bro? I started an argument about corpses having casual sex. I looked up scientific articles about bat cunnilingus. I just finished making a shirt that says “Turtles Don’t Fuck.” I have no chill, buddy. I am not even in the vicinity of fucking around. When given the opportunity to be ridiculous, I don’t just take it, I grab it with both hands, shove it in my mouth, suck it till it comes down my throat, swallow, and then shit this bizarre fucking content right onto my keyboard and slam that motherfucking post button!So nyocanada15, my friend, my buddy. I don’t understand. Please explain this to me. Why is this gentle reminder to young people who might be manipulated into unsafe sexual behavior by murderers who can “see the darkness within them” or some shit like that—why is this your breaking point? Why is it only now that you stop and say “what the fuck mod ej”? Haven’t I earned that already!?
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Run, Singing, and Wtf: On brad/vip/pr-demo-franework: features On brad/vip/pr-deno-framework: demo VIP on brad/vip/pr-demo-trane. ork: a4cae2a197 VIC-1868 Redo status messaging (#2457) franewor: fal o testing hacks framevor wt On On IC-3880-power-save engine: disable prox sensor take 2 On brad/vip/VIC-3880-power-save-engine: audio mut ing ine: disable prox sensor ine: viz On brad/vip/VIC On brad/vip/no-wifi: wrong way to turn stats: attempt at seconds seen On brad/vip/vall-tine-pt-2: engine time test On brad/wip/vall-time: tinezone test On brad/vip/VIC-3285-stats: Wall time On brad/vip/VIC-2951-das-anin-event: das webots printf n nichelle/VIC-2990-AddSDKBehaviorHook 2: michelle test fixes On brad/Mip/sanding-2: debugging On brad/wip/sanding-2: hacks On brad/vip/sanding-2: work On brad/vip/active-feature-intent: lambda for IsActive intent n brad/wip/active-feature-docs: n brad/Mip/VIC-1868-status-ness ges: wtf an I do IP on brad/wip/VIC-2382-active-feau On brad/vip/sanding: assert on robot On brad/vip/sanding: hacks NIP on brad/vip/sanding iveFeature section to behavior docs 9c8c1 tete singing behavior instances observing more active : roll to upri nt (dont like it : hacks IP on brad/Mip/sanding: dfe4bf5f4c Add Wiggu IP on brad/vip/sanding: 7b73fefe05 Clean up behavior stack fix On brad/vip/VIC-2811-stin-behaviors: robot viz n brad/vip/VIC-2811-st.in-behaviors: stim tuning toCharger behavior and OnchargerPlatform condition nodes COmpilationg default-directory:/Documents/code/victor/engine/aiComponent/behav Conpilation started at Wed Jut 11 22:01:46 et -o pipefail; cd git rev-parse -show-toplevel'&& /project/victor/build-victor.she c Debug-02 I ta ontransfer e/ninja-thrott le.py ttempting to instalt nake rad/anki/cnake/dist/3.9.6/Ctake.app/Contents/bin/cmake ttempting to run fetch-bui ld-deps.sh set set s/code/victor/project/victor/scriots/fatch #HeyVector Vector by Anki | A Giant Roll Forward For Robotkind การดู 56K ครั้ง 20 แชร์ ดาวน์โหลด บันทีก 1.1K ติดตาม anu Anki ผู้ติดตาม 57K คน Is this how you make programming effective?

Is this how you make programming effective?

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