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Crazy, Girls, and Politics: Interestingly, the reasons men and women tend to get angry differ. A 15-year study of girls and women found that there are three primary causes of anger that are not the same in men: feelings of powerlessness, injustice, and other people's irresponsibility cygnaut: poesieplease: whistle-notes: coldasaslab: johnstamostimelessbeauty: Here’s something to chew on. about me.jpg honestly In case you wanna read the article this quote is from: http://rolereboot.org/culture-and-politics/details/2016-05-daughter-know-ok-angry/ Adaptable girls find socially acceptable ways to internalize or channel their discomfort and ire, sometimes at great personal cost. Passive aggressive behavior, anxiety, and depression are common effects. Sarcasm, apathy, and meanness have all been linked to suppressed rage. Troublesome behaviors, such as lying, skipping school, bullying other people, even being socially awkward are often signs that a teenager is dealing with anger that they are unable to name as anger. Girls, taught to ignore their anger, become disassociated from themselves. Anger is so successfully sublimated that girls lose the ability to understand what it feels and looks like. Is her heart racing? Does she feel flushed or shaky? Does she clench her jaws at night? Is she breaking out in hives? Does she cry for no reason? Laugh inappropriately during difficult conversations? Fly off the handle over something that seems inconsequential? You can see where I’m going here…those crazy girl hormones, right? Better to just think of it as a phase. For too many women, however, the phase never ends. It’s lives spent never expressing anger at all and believing that they don’t have the right or ability to do so without great risk.

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Adidas, Bad, and Bitch: William Holcomb @Hulkomb I'm a bad flirter : ( Jeasica S. Hi, I'm Jessica! How can I help you fulfill your adidas needs today? What are you up to Did you need help with any Visitor: Jessica S.: adidas items today? Visitor:No, just lonely Jessica S.: This chat is for adidas items only Visitor:can we act like we're talking about shoes but really we're just talking Visitor: whats your favorite shoe We have to actually talk about the properties and technology in the shoe Jessica S.: How i wip Visitor:nikes look cooler tho Jessica S.: They weigh 6.7 ounces. Did you have any other adidas related questions? Visitor: you single Jessica S.: No. Did you have any other Visitor:one day we'll be able to tell our adidas related questions kids we met via adidas customer service chat room Jessica S. Iam married. Did you have any other adidas related questions? Visitor: 50% ofmarriagesiend in divorce geneeste: agenderlal: ralndrops: I CANT BREATHE haha its so funny how he just harasses her at work where she’s not allowed to end the conversation Okay. We’re going to sit down and have a talk. I work in customer support, and 99% of my job is interacting directly with customers. In an average week, I have around 300 live chats with customers. This is just chat, this doesn’t count emails or phone support. In the year and a half since I’ve been in my current job, I have: repeatedly been called a bitch and a cunt; been told to go fuck myself and to fuck off; been explicitly propositioned for sexual favors; I have been repeatedly harassed by at least two men who describe to me in detail the state of their genitals; have had multiple customers pretend to have medical emergencies/pretend to be dying; have heard basically every disgusting thing you can think of regarding bodily functions, and then some. Do I enjoy those chats when I get them? No. But do you know what I really, really dread? The kinds of chats that really stress me out? It’s chats like the one in the pictures. It’s chats in which the customers aren’t being explicitly awful. Where their harassment is mild, conversations that, on the surface, are downright pleasant. Because every time I end a chat of this nature, every time I make the decision to ban a customer from our chat service, I have to defend it. I have to go to my employer and explain to them why I think a customer acted inappropriately enough that I refused to help them potentially spend money on our service or product. And it’s so, so hard to explain this kind of harassment, the kind of menace these chats communicate. William Holcomb up there, he doesn’t care that I’m a person, because to him I’m not. I’m not a person he’s ‘flirting’ with - I’m very far away, so far away in fact that I’m an object. I’m an easy target. He knows that as long as he isn’t too obvious, he can keep me on chat and play whatever game he came to play. He knows he has power over me that I don’t want him to have. Now, I’m lucky. My current employer is wonderful about these kinds of situations, and gives me the latitude to act on my best judgement. But I’m still working for a company that’s trying to make a profit, and that’s in the back of my mind whenever situations like this pop up, which is not infrequently. And I haven’t always worked for companies who cared about their employees in this way. Lots of CS agents don’t either. This is not flirting, and it isn’t funny. This is harassment, of someone who can’t really tell you to stop. Shame on you.
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Dicks, Party, and Police: LETS BREAK THIS GENDER EQUALIT ...BULLSHIT DOWIN. LET'S TALK ABOUT GENDER EQUALITY... Women who hit men are BITCHES. Women are brave if they hit men Men who hit womem are DICKS. Don't hit anyone. The WEAK and LITTLE who -stand against their bullies are BRAVE Men are evil, brutal perverts if they hit women The STRONG and BIG who attack those unable to defend are EVIL and BRUTAL. ANYONE is romantic when they suddenly kiss their SIGNIFICANT OTHER or someone who wants to be kissed dss my dass Women are romantic if they suddenly kiss men EVERYONE who suddenly kisses a STRANGER or someone who doesn't want to be kissed is perverted. Men are perverted if they suddenly kiss women Who lirts by staring at man's crotch?REALLY Maybe as a part of forplay, but at that point,both parties are allowed to stare at anything. Women staring at men's crotch it's flirting Staring at breasts has time and place. Inappropriately drooling over random female's chest IS offensive Men staring at women's breasts it's perverted and offensive Let's split Il you ASK someone out, the dinner is ON YOU by default unless discussed otherwise. If the INVITED PARTY offers to pay for themselves, that is INDEPENDENT. She is independent Let's split the bill If the INVITING PARTY asks them to pay, that is He is cheap Mistake is mistake. When you realise, you've done it,you CORRECT IT A GAWKING IDIOT in wrong bathroom is statisticaly very likely a pervert. It's just a mistake if women go into men's bathroom Presumably most women dont want to see male bathroom, but a lot of men wouldnt mind seeing a female one. However! Men are perverted if they Calling someone pervert based on a go into women's bathroom STEREOTYPES ASSHOLEy. is just wrong. Women doing work: Help me!" When someone NEEDS help HELP THEM. If someone is TAKING ADVANTAGE of you, SENT THEM TO HELL Men doing work:"it's natural!" ANY reported sexual assault should have CONCEQUENCES. Police To succumb to the temtation of stereotipical non-arguments, here is the missing step: what were GENDER EQUALITY starts with identifying the issue without specifying the GENDER. WHATIP No potato? You DICKBUTT! HERE GENDER EQUALI Gender equality, I dont think it means what you think it means
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