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Blessed, Crush, and Funny: Ashanti Becomes The Latest Black Female Celebrity To Share Her #MeToo Stories Of Sexual Harassment: "Once l Said 'No,' All Of A Sudden The Track Became $45k" @balleralert Ashanti Becomes The Latest Black Female Celebrity To Share Her MeToo Stories Of Sexual Harassment – “Once I Said ‘No,’ All Of A Sudden The Track Became $45k” – blogged by @MsJennyb ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As allegations of sexual misconduct and assault continue to spread throughout Hollywood, more women and men, alike, are coming forward to share their experiences. In fact, Ashanti has become the most recent black female celebrity to share her own MeToo story. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The ‘Foolish’ singer spilled the details in an interview on SiriusXM’s “Conversation with Maria Menounos,” as she revealed that she was sexually harassed by a producer, who refused to release her music without an exchange of sexual favors. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “I’ve come across a situation where there was a certain producer that, you know, he had his little crush or whatever, but it wasn’t anything new, you know,” Ashanti said. “And once I said ‘no,’ all of a sudden the track became $45k.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “It’s funny because he said something like, ‘Well just take a shower with me and let me do this,” she continued, as she explained the producer apologized when one of her “big brothers” stepped in. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “The way that apology came in, I actually got three records for free,” Ashanti said. “And I got two of them mixed and mastered for free also.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ However, according to the songstress, not everyone is blessed to have people that look out for them and protect them, when need be. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “I’m blessed because I have that,” she said, as she reflected on her experience. “It happens it does and it’s unfortunate.”

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Apparently, Bad, and Bored: Woman Asks Why A Guy She Turned Down Didn't Try Harder, Gets The Perfect Response Like Bored Panda on FB Like 13M 4 days ago by Rokas A guy invites a girl on a date, tries all of his best moves, but she says no. A guy has to move on, otherwise, it's harassment. Unless it isn't? Recently, a girl surprised the internet when she posted a question on Quora, asking why her date wasn't a mind reader. She wrote, "A guy asked me out today and I told him "no', but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?" Naturally, a question like this deserves something more than a simple answer, an answer that's written in the same language. Luckily, Ron Rule typed a response the inquirer should've understood. Scroll down to check out what he wrote! Someone surprised Quora with a strange question A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again? Luckily, this guy responded with an example the inquirer had to understand Ron Rule, CEO @ As Seen On TV L+ Answered Feb 3 A girl asked me what I wanted for lunch and I said "pizza", but I really wanted steak. Why did she bring me pizza? CS. Do you see how stupid that question sounds? That's how your question sounds. Amused by the exchange, people started sharing their own experiences Malovus 5 pts I had a girl dump me once, a month later she started sending me angry texts about how I didn't fight to keep her and she was only testing me FriendlyNeighborhoodUrologist 1,153 pts Same scenario happened to me a year back. She freaked out "what do you mean 'Ok' don't you want to keep me?" BobLeeSw4ger 20 pts I asked a girl out. Was declined. She told my brother i took it like a gentleman. Little flirt later guess who got that date. MrFnortner 336 pts My wife does that. Her: You want chicken or salman? Me: Salmon. Her: Well I need to cook the chicken before it spoils. Me: Well, why did... Icommentandpostmypets 4,516 pts Play stupid games, win nothing of value. Had a ex do this. Dated a month, asked me to just be friends. Said sure. Got mad I didn't fight. MakingYouReadThingsInSamElliottsVoice 15 pts "No means no, except when a guy is supposed to read minds and know it doesn't, but it may later mean no, unless the girl changes her mind." intaglioguy 9 pts "I wanted to play games. He didn't play along. I've de- cided to blame him so I can avoid personal responsibil- ity for my actions." TheGirlInTheFireplace 7 pts No, sh't like this pisses me off. My last gf of 8 years left me on the day I was going out to buy a ring for her because she 'didn't feel wanted enough'. It tore me apart inside but I learned to move on. Kinda. A few months later she texted me and told me the reason she left me was because she wanted me to chase after her. I WANTED TO SO BADLY but I thought "It's over" meant it was over. No one will <p><a href="http://the-memeblades-chosen-one.tumblr.com/post/171072958064/celticpyro-eeveelutionsforequality" class="tumblr_blog">the-memeblades-chosen-one</a>:</p><blockquote> <p><a href="http://celticpyro.tumblr.com/post/171069509284/eeveelutionsforequality-someoneintheshadow446" class="tumblr_blog">celticpyro</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/171057059312/someoneintheshadow446-apparently-this-isnt-a-bad" class="tumblr_blog">eeveelutionsforequality</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://someoneintheshadow446.tumblr.com/post/171056525840/apparently-this-isnt-a-bad-stereotype-from" class="tumblr_blog">someoneintheshadow446</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>Apparently this isn’t a bad stereotype from sitcoms and that real women who do this exist. </p></blockquote> <p>It’s not just women, I’ve dated women and guys who do this. I’m not the kind of person who “fights for” anybody - if they say that they’re leaving, of course I’ll ask why and talk it through with them, but I’m not going to buy a bouquet and appear at their door at 3am to try to get something from them that they said they didn’t want to give. The amount of times that I’ve heard “If you really loved me, you’d fight for me.” and I’ve been like “Well, if I really respected you and cared for you then I’d want you to be happy, rather than wanting you to do whatever it is that I want you to do.” and they come out with “So, what, you don’t want to be with me?” and I’m like “It’s not about what I want. If I wanted somebody’s watch and they didn’t want to give me the watch, I wouldn’t just take the watch. This is no different.” and then they push and push like “Just tell me that you want to be with me and I’ll stay.” and I’m like “I’m not going to do that, I want you to do what will make you happy.” and then I get called a heartless psychopath who never loved them and will never love anybody… so that’s fun. </p> <p>~ Vape </p> </blockquote> <p>Just…don’t do this. This is bad. Communicate clearly, some people will think you actually mean what you say and others are struggling with social skills enough. If you want to stay, stay. Don’t say ‘no’ and expect someone to not respect your answer. Heck, why would you WANT someone to not respect your boundaries?</p> <p>Stuff like this ruins the legitimacy of ‘No means no’ and #MeToo. <br/></p> </blockquote> <p><i><a href="http://the-memeblades-chosen-one.tumblr.com/post/170364684149/maybe-heshe-is-just-playing-hard-to-get-ok">throw back to what I said about mind games/“playing hard to get”</a></i></p> </blockquote> <p>I knew someone in my church girls small group when I was a young teenager who bragged about how her mother purposely cut off all communication with her father (before they were together) in order to see how hard he would work to contact her. I distinctly remember saying I thought that was stupid and everyone else in the room shooting me down and saying it was romantic and great that she was “playing hard to get“ to “get him to pursue her“ and honestly screw that noise. Life‘s too short for head games and in this climate especially guys would be a whole lot less inclined to keep pursuing a woman who declined them for fear of being accused of something insidious. Just be honest, people.</p>

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Drugs, Memes, and Music: The Black Eyed Peas Say Music Today Does Not Address Important lssues @balleralert The Black Eyed Peas Say Music Today Does Not Address Important Issues- Blogged By @tktrinidad ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It has been eight years since TheBlackEyedPeas released an album, but now they’re back with a new single called “Street Livin’” which focuses on social justice and change. The Black Eyed Peas have been very vocal in saying that music of today needs a message, especially with topics like racism and sexism being at the forefront. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ During an interview with Variety, the group talked about sexism in the music industry and how music currently lacks a sense of activism, especially surrounding the MeToo movement. Will.i.am said, “Music is probably … it does a really good job at diminishing the power of a woman. And that’s really sad. Especially Hip Hop, rock — sex, drugs and rock and roll. A woman is a resource in that sentence. It’s sad.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Taboo then went on to say that music doesn’t have a call to action anymore. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “It’s sad that, in this day and age of music, we don’t have a huge support for activism as we used to.In the ’60s, everybody was trying to make a statement with their music. It seems like more athletes are making a statement, standing up for causes, than actually in the music industry.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What are your thoughts?

The Black Eyed Peas Say Music Today Does Not Address Important Issues- Blogged By @tktrinidad ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It has been eight years since ...

Black Lives Matter, Memes, and Protest: DEAR WHTE WOMEN OVARE WE GONG TO FIX WHAT WE HAVE DONE DEAR WHITE WOMEN ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 Repost @kidd.bell: “Standing in a sea of pink pussy hats for the second year in a row I’m struck by how many well-intentioned women are still missing the mark. We have to start using our voices and our outrage to protest more than just misogyny. Whether you voted for trump or not, you benefit from white supremacy on the daily. So ask yourself, what are you doing to actively dismantle it? Do you show up for Black Lives Matter the way you do for the Women’s March? Do you defend the rights of immigrants as much as you do your pussy? Do you call out racism with the same fervor that you proclaimed MeToo? White women are oppressed, but we are also oppressors. And if we truly want to dismantle this system, we must first hold ourselves accountable. ✊🏼” . . (update by @kidd.bell: to all those feeling massive outrage against this post - ask yourself why. Why does me acknowledging our privilege, and asking you to think about ways you can better serve WOC, upset you so much? If you are doing tons to help the marginalized then why aren’t you supporting this post, and demanding the same of others? Sitting in discomfort is how we grow. If this makes you feel attacked, then it probably means that you are the one who needs to hear it the most. And if you don’t want to listen to my words then, listen to Angela Davis. Read Women, Race + Class to learn more about accountability and how all oppression is connected.)

DEAR WHITE WOMEN ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 Repost @kidd.bell: “Standing in a sea of pink pussy hats for the second year in a row I’m struck by how many well-...

Crime, Deer, and Dumb: HYFR8h All rapes and sexual harassment must be reported within 24 hours or you will be charged with a crime should you bring forward this information after the mandatory reporting period. This should be the new rule, no fucking exceptions.All these dumb fucking women coming forward now for attention. Fuck off. If you are uncomfortable in a fucking situation, leave. Don't fucking sit there like a fucking retarded deer in the headlights, "oh Harvey wants me to go up to his hotel room? I'm sure he just wants to talk, and maybe play some board games ! Hehe" Oh, he's answering the door in a bathrobe ? He's so quirky, I'm still gunna go in. This metoo movement is fucking bullshit, these women know what they're doing... You're making your bed and you're going to have to lay in it. It's already starting, cable repair techs are refusing to go into houses with women residing without body cams on and recording the entire time, this is what our society has come to and it's a fucking joke. It's a gender war and it's only getting worse, you women are pushing men further and further away. Can you notice it around you? When you're out? When you're with your friends. Men act different around you now scary huh? Edit 114 <p><a href="https://sleepycider.tumblr.com/post/169781323564/i-think-people-should-make-it-illegal-to-cry-rape" class="tumblr_blog">sleepycider</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>I think people should make it illegal to cry rape after not going to the police or hospital and using social media as your “executioner”. But that’s just me. I do think we need to punish people who don’t report it but I’m not sure how.</p></blockquote> <p>I too am dubious of people who come out 20 years after the fact, but I think a 24 hour reporting period is a little ridiculous.</p>

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Instagram, Life, and Memes: Seal Says His Instagram Post Was Not An Attack On Oprah; Tells Stacey Dash To Keep His Name Out Of Her Mouth @balleralert Read More: www.balleralert.com Seal Says His Instagram Post Was Not An Attack On Oprah, Tells Stacey Dash To Keep His Name Out Of Her Mouth – blogged by @MsJennyb (Swipe) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Earlier this week, after Oprah Winfrey’s powerful Golden Globe speech that launched the unofficial “Oprah2020” campaign, Seal took to Instagram to call out the legendary host. At least that’s how it initially seemed. But, according to the singer-songwriter, we’ve got it all wrong. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “Let me start by saying that I have an enormous amount of respect for everything that Oprah has achieved and contributed in her life,” Seal said in a video, just before clarifying his Instagram post which accused Winfrey of being apart of the sexual misconduct problem in Hollywood. “What I reposted was not an attack on Oprah at all, she just happened to be the person photographed with the pig in the picture.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Seal’s photo included two photos of Winfrey with Harvey Weinstein, whose sexual assault allegations propelled the MeToo movement, where people share their stories of sexual misconduct, assault, and harassment. The picture was overlayed by text that read, “When you have been part of the problem for decades. But suddenly they all think you are the solution.” The singer posted the photo amid the massive wave of support for a potential presidential campaign for the host. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “No. What I reposted was a commentary on the hypocritical and double standard nature and behavior of Hollywood. So Fox News, back off! But, I’ll get to you later,” he said. “Next, to those of us who support the MeToo Movement, just know this. Not one of the women who have been sexually abused, not one of the women who has come forward has received any real justice, whatsoever.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “Losing your job because you either, A. raped, B. sexually abused or even sexually harassed a woman is not real punishment......to read the rest log on to BallerAlert.com (clickable link on profile)

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Definitely, God, and Life: <p><a href="https://dayvushka.tumblr.com/post/166580125199/liberscaryrynn-mary-in-the-bible-joyfully" class="tumblr_blog">dayvushka</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="https://liberscaryrynn.tumblr.com/post/166579780739/mary-in-the-bible-joyfully-accepted-the-task-of" class="tumblr_blog">liberscaryrynn</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>Mary in the Bible: *Joyfully accepted the task of carrying the Son of God*<br/> Some edgelord twat: “hurr de durr, Mary wuz raped”</p></blockquote> <p><a href="https://www.tumblr.com/tagged/like-even-if-you-don%27t-believe-the-Bible-the-text-definitely-confirms-it-was-consensual">#like even if you don’t believe the Bible the text definitely confirms it was consensual</a></p> <p>The argument is that when someone who has life or death power over you asks if you want to have sex/carry the son of the god, the woman’s “yes” is meaningless because she doesn’t have the power to say “no.” Thus, she didn’t “consent,” she “submitted to someone with life or death power over her.” <br/></p> </blockquote> <p>Bullshit. Mary is and always has historically been celebrated for her willingness to carry the son of God. She did not do it out of fear, she did it out of love for the Lord. Every aspect of the text, her song following the incident (“my soul magnifies the Lord”) and Christian religious tradition supports this. It’s called Mary’s fiat for a reason. She could have said no. She wasn’t forced to do anything. Also no “sex” was involved and the Holy Spirit is not a physical being so rape is physically impossible.</p><p>I love it when people who clearly don’t give a shit about the Christian religion or the historic interpretation of scriptures want to tell Christians what they say.</p>

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