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Clothes, Dank, and Drinking: maura quint @behindyourback maura quint@behindyourback 13h v One time a guy and I had flirted, he invited me to his room, I went we kissed, I said I liked it, he took off his clothes, I touched him, he tried to take off my clothes, I resisted, he said "seems like you're not into this" I said, ehhh, he said, no, it's only fun if you want it I want to tell a story: Once in high school, I felt insecure, I put on a tight top too low cut and dark lip stick I didn't usually wear. I went to a party drank terrible wine coolers, too many of them. A man asked me if I wanted to leave, I slurred, said maybe, He said "mavbe"? 7:33 PM-28 Sep 18 459 8,068 maura quint@behindyourback 13h v I said, l'm sorry, he said it's ok. I left unmolested. I was lucky, I hadn't met a rapist that night. 419 8,872 maura quint@behindyourback 13h And then he said "maybe isn't yes" and I went home that night, un-assaulted, because l hadn't talked to a rapist at that party 15t745 13.2K maura quint@behindyourback 13h v l've been assaulted. I've also been not assaulted. The difference didn't seem to be what I was wearing, how flirty I was, how much I was drinking. The only difference seemed to be whether or not the men felt it was ok or not to assault. maura quint@behindyourback 13h v Another story:I went out drinking with girl friends at a bar a few years later. I was flirting with a guy there, he grabbed my hand, pulled me outside, into an alley, he kissed me hard and then looked at me and said, "yes?" I didn't say anything. 274 6,408 43.9K 4 394 6,368 0 maura quint@behindyourback 13h v He said "go back inside then," maybe he was annoyed but he meant it, I went back inside. There wasn't a rapist at that bar. t 435 9,323 Saw this on TrollX and thought it might be appreciated here too: The difference between assaulted and not-assaulted by hovdeisfunny MORE MEMES

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Advice, Anaconda, and Bad: Hello, it's Namjoon. It's my first time doing an audio message so l'm not sure what to say. Everyone is doing okay, right? Our schedule have been busy these days but we're doing alright. As usual, I go here and there whenever I have free time to get some inspiration and thoughts. I think that I'm becoming a better version of myself. Our ARMYs might have lots of different problems but like what I said in my acceptance speech - ah not my acceptance speech but what I said in the concert is sincere I can't personally advice you on how to overcome your problems since we have different circumstances in life but I am here to listen to you. If your problems are at 100 and our existence can reduce it to 99, 98. then that's how I want to be. Even if we get a little tired but if we can be your strength then we'll gladly give you strength, that's right. The weather is getting really cold (computer sound, aigoo the computer always makes a ding dong sound), always dress yourself warmly. And since there's a lot of fine dust, protect your throat too. I've been recording earlier so my throat feels a litte hoarse. I want to see and talk to you in person but I can't do that yet. Always be healthy and although we won't always be able to find happiness and have happy days, I wish that there will be happier days. I'm really thankful. I know that I will have to do something else more than saying, "I'll work hard." But regardless, I will work hard. If you're listening to this before going to bed, I wish that you will have a good sleep and let's see each other in the dream that you'll be having. After listening to this, I wish that you're day will be happier and I hope that this made your day better, like the feeling of taking off your contact lenses after a long day. I'm not sure but there are a lot of things that can make your day better, like when the room heater is at the right temperature. I wish that you'll have a lot of those moments. Have a good night, I'm wishing for a lot of happy days for you. You did well today, I love you. mimibtsghost: IF YOU HAVING A BAD DAY, THESE WISE COMFORTING WORDS FROM NAMJOON MAY CHANGE THAT! |Β  flyhigh_twt
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Bad, Family, and Friends: I found myself reflecting on life this morning.... More specifically about how BIG life really is and how we forget that life can change in a moment. I thought about all the things that I thought were huge deals that weren’t and how what seemed like the end in sooo many ways during sooo many circumstances were just the beginning. I thought about a broken heart as a teenager and how I thought my life was over....πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I thought about being fired from Sonic at 17 and that my professional career was over!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I’ve thought many times I’m not good enough and I honestly never will be.....I think we ALL do! I thought about my entire military career and how I truly thought that was it for me.....nothing wrong with it in any way, but that was truly the plan for 12 years....... Then in an instant.....it all changed and life had a different plan in store all together. I thought about friends and family that are no longer here. I thought about how unfair it all seems and thoughts of why them instead of me kick in.....I also thought about how much they would have loved to see what is happening. The point is simply this..... Life is fluid and ever changing! Sometimes it changes for the good and sometimes it changes for the bad......the point is to keep going! Where you are now (Good place or bad place) is EXACTLY where you are supposed to be and it’s preparing you for your next place and your next step! Take your chances, live in your moments, and LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! Trust me.....it’s worth it! -GrahamπŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ life real daily freedom blackriflecoffee tattoo

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