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Lay back and let them molest your good name: How to deal with being called out 10 HOURS AGO chescaleigh: 8829 NOTES 1. Don't tone police. It is NOT your right to dictate how someone should react to their oppression. 2. Don't demand a detailed explanation. You're basically asking the person to justify their call out. It's exhausting, many resources are available, and often this is just a way to try and derail, start an argument, or discredit the other person. 3. Don't get defensive. A call out is not all about you as a person. 4. Don't take it personally. Calling out is not a personal attack. If someone calls you out, they're trying to teach you something. Calling out is a way for people to educate others on how systems of oppression operate on a day to day, individual level. 5. Don't attack the person who's calling you out. That's just fucked up. 6. Don't assume the person calling you out is just "looking to get offended". Nobody enjoys calling other people out. To call someone out, people often have to mentally prepare for serious repercussions. Calling someone out might mean starting an argument, during which many people will side with the oppressor by default (especially if you're privileged over the person calling you out). 7. Understand that being oppressive is not the same as being offensive or hurting feelings. The damage you're perpetuating is part of a larger system of oppression. 8. Realize that your intent is irrelevant when it comes to whether you were oppressive or not 9. Recognize the power dynamics that are in place between you and the person calling you out 10. Understand intersectionality. IE: Just because you are oppressed by classism, doesn't mean you lack male privilege. 11. Know that being privileged means being oppressive, but you can work to reduce the ways that you are oppressive. 12. LISTEN. 13. Genuinely apologize. 14. Work on oppression reduction and being the best ally you can be. The point of calling you out is to draw your attention to how you're being oppressive, so that you can work to change it. If you made an oppressive joke, there's probably oppressive thoughts in place (conscious or not) that led you to think the joke was appropriate Everyone has to unlearn the oppressive things they've absorbed from an oppressive society. We are all taught ways to keep marginalized people in their place, but the good thing is that we can identify these things in ourselves and change. And then we can start working on dismantling the kyriarchy, yeah! (source) Lay back and let them molest your good name
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normal-horoscopes: pooraurora: postmarxed: inkandcayenne: wilfulwayfarer: rasec-wizzlbang: dalaisa-katili: local-emo-mom: anarcho-individualist: explanatorypower: i dont understand this at all and america scares the fuck out of me This is the america they don’t want you to see i love america This is what you call Waffle House at 2 am when the bars close and everyone is drunk and hungry *group of people having fun*this site: wtf this is so scary People having safe fun at a waffle house is scary for most Tumblr bloggers, reports say. Some context for those not familiar with Waffle House Culture:  Waffle House is one of the few chains in America that’s open 24/7/365, and where you can get both breakfast and lunch/dinner options at any time (I have had so many Breakfast Cheeseburgers at Waffle Houses). The food is really good, and people eat there at all times of the day or night, but it’s particularly popular as a late-night post-drinking spot because it’s all that’s open and it’s the kind of food that tastes especially good when you’re hammered. Part of Waffle House Protocol is that all the servers and cooks greet every single customer as they come through the door. It sounds lame, but I’ve never been to a Waffle House where that greeting didn’t feel completely heartfelt. My mom is a health nut who could barely find anything on the menu she was willing to eat and yet she describes the Christmas Day lunch we had there one year as one of the nicest meals she’s ever had because everyone was so warm and welcoming. That sense of camaraderie gets turned up to 11, of course, at 2 a.m. when everyone’s shitfaced. The jukeboxes have Waffle-House-themed songs on them (once you have heard “Raisins in my Toast” you will be earwormed forever) and there is an arcane system of hash brown ordering: scattered, smothered, covered, chunked, topped, diced, peppered, and/or capped. The hot sauce bottles say “Casa de Waffle.”  Once, in Oxford (UK), my husband and I walked past a kebab van very late one night and he said “why do I smell Waffle House” The location of most Waffle Houses means there’s some… classism that tends to get tied up with Anti-Waffle House Discourse, which is probably lending itself, in part, to this being such a fraught topic. (I’m looking at a map and apparently I was born and raised right in the middle of the Peak Waffle House Density Zone) It is, in the words of chef Anthony Bourdain, “indeed marvelous— an irony-free zone where everything is beautiful and nothing hurts; where everybody regardless of race, creed, color or degree of inebriation is welcomed.” We’re not even gonna mention FEMA’s Waffle House Index where they determine how bad a natural disaster is by calling the local Waffle House to see if they’re open? #and wafflehouse is one of those spiritual places#2am friendships#its the same hazy feel#of cicadas and front porches with your friends Waffle House is physical and spiritual neutral territory. Starting shit in a Waffle House isn’t just bad form, it tips the entire natural balance of the universe against you. : normal-horoscopes: pooraurora: postmarxed: inkandcayenne: wilfulwayfarer: rasec-wizzlbang: dalaisa-katili: local-emo-mom: anarcho-individualist: explanatorypower: i dont understand this at all and america scares the fuck out of me This is the america they don’t want you to see i love america This is what you call Waffle House at 2 am when the bars close and everyone is drunk and hungry *group of people having fun*this site: wtf this is so scary People having safe fun at a waffle house is scary for most Tumblr bloggers, reports say. Some context for those not familiar with Waffle House Culture:  Waffle House is one of the few chains in America that’s open 24/7/365, and where you can get both breakfast and lunch/dinner options at any time (I have had so many Breakfast Cheeseburgers at Waffle Houses). The food is really good, and people eat there at all times of the day or night, but it’s particularly popular as a late-night post-drinking spot because it’s all that’s open and it’s the kind of food that tastes especially good when you’re hammered. Part of Waffle House Protocol is that all the servers and cooks greet every single customer as they come through the door. It sounds lame, but I’ve never been to a Waffle House where that greeting didn’t feel completely heartfelt. My mom is a health nut who could barely find anything on the menu she was willing to eat and yet she describes the Christmas Day lunch we had there one year as one of the nicest meals she’s ever had because everyone was so warm and welcoming. That sense of camaraderie gets turned up to 11, of course, at 2 a.m. when everyone’s shitfaced. The jukeboxes have Waffle-House-themed songs on them (once you have heard “Raisins in my Toast” you will be earwormed forever) and there is an arcane system of hash brown ordering: scattered, smothered, covered, chunked, topped, diced, peppered, and/or capped. The hot sauce bottles say “Casa de Waffle.”  Once, in Oxford (UK), my husband and I walked past a kebab van very late one night and he said “why do I smell Waffle House” The location of most Waffle Houses means there’s some… classism that tends to get tied up with Anti-Waffle House Discourse, which is probably lending itself, in part, to this being such a fraught topic. (I’m looking at a map and apparently I was born and raised right in the middle of the Peak Waffle House Density Zone) It is, in the words of chef Anthony Bourdain, “indeed marvelous— an irony-free zone where everything is beautiful and nothing hurts; where everybody regardless of race, creed, color or degree of inebriation is welcomed.” We’re not even gonna mention FEMA’s Waffle House Index where they determine how bad a natural disaster is by calling the local Waffle House to see if they’re open? #and wafflehouse is one of those spiritual places#2am friendships#its the same hazy feel#of cicadas and front porches with your friends Waffle House is physical and spiritual neutral territory. Starting shit in a Waffle House isn’t just bad form, it tips the entire natural balance of the universe against you.
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Help the revolution: Druselstein would obviously be pre bolchevik Russia. Baloony is representing the happiness of the people because it was Doofs only friend. Thanks to the corruption and classism of the Russian imperial monarchy, doof was forced to stand outside every night as a lawn gnome, which meant the relentless long and sometimes useless work the lower class was forced to do. Thanks to the work, doof lost happiness. He tried to leave to "a land of golden opportunity" but he ended up in America instead". There, he met meep. Meep represents Lenin. He knew how to return doof to baloony, but had to take radical action (going to space and defeating big Mitch) to do so. Also, although his job was to stop people like Mitch from getting to powerful, no one could understand what he said when he tried to tell people his importance. So, Mitch is somewhat of a personification of all opposing ideologies. uch is why he said that he was known across the universe by many names, however, all of the names mean the same thing, keeping the rich rich and keeping the poor trapped (represented by Mitch being a poacher). Now that we have established that, lets see about Danville, otherwise known as Berlin, and the tri state area being Eastern Europe. There are two main locations in Danville we know of. The Flin-Fletcher house (west) and Doofenshmirtz evil inc (east). Pineas and Ferbs inventions represent the capitalists economic boost that the east had to watch, while Doofs failed because Perry destroyed them, Perry being the CIA. The reason it is represented by machines is because of the space race. Doof taking over the tri state area is similar to Russia creating the iron curtain With that, you might have one question: why do Mitch and Phineas & Ferb both represent the west if the fought against each other? Well Phineas & Ferb are the people, while Mitch is the ideology. Them fighting against Mitch represents the upcoming revolution. Help the revolution

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