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President Obama has shown Black men what loving a Black woman completely and correctly looks like “Michelle LaVaughn Robison, girl of the South Side…” so began President Obama’s tearful address to his wife during Tuesday night’s farewell address. As the most visible Black man on the planet stood before the world bidding us adieu, there sat his brown, statuesque, unmistakably Black wife blushing as her husband of 25 years stood at the podium raving over her. If you asked me to define Black love, I’d point you to that video. Nearly 13 years ago when a young, Black Illinois Senator first entered Black America’s radar, I was looking for the great woman proverbially at the side every great man. Controversial as it may be, I always appreciate seeing a powerful Black man married to a Black woman, since too often, non-Black wives, especially White women, are used as a tool to bargain for proximate Whiteness. So when I found out that Barack Obama’s wife was Black, and not the kind of rigid, palatable, ambiguous Black woman that America loves to hold up as proof of its diversity but an unambiguously Black, thicker-than-cold-grits, abundantly-melanated sister from the South Side, I melted. In the decade plus since Obama shot to political superstardom, I have been less than a fanatic of his policies, vocally critical even. But my disappointment in his performance as president has been in stark contrast to his performance as a family man and husband. I expect any man to adore his wife, but Obama’s unabashed adoration and gushing over the woman he referred to as the “brilliant, funny, generous woman who, for whatever reason, agreed to marry” him is the wildest dream of my wildest dreams of love. The unimaginable sacrifice Michelle Obama made in allowing her entire life to be scrutinized, demonized, judged and laid bare for a public largely relentless in its brutal racism and misogynoir has been repaid by her husband with the dreamiest intimate gazes from a podium before millions. The man she met nearly 30 years ago when she was assigned to mentor him as a summer associate at the law firm where she practiced has shown his appreciation for her . 17thsoulja: The Greatest Black Love Story Ever Told @17th Soulja President Obama has shown Black men what loving a Black woman completely and correctly looks like “Michelle LaVaughn Robison, girl of the South Side…” so began President Obama’s tearful address to his wife during Tuesday night’s farewell address. As the most visible Black man on the planet stood before the world bidding us adieu, there sat his brown, statuesque, unmistakably Black wife blushing as her husband of 25 years stood at the podium raving over her. If you asked me to define Black love, I’d point you to that video. Nearly 13 years ago when a young, Black Illinois Senator first entered Black America’s radar, I was looking for the great woman proverbially at the side every great man. Controversial as it may be, I always appreciate seeing a powerful Black man married to a Black woman, since too often, non-Black wives, especially White women, are used as a tool to bargain for proximate Whiteness. So when I found out that Barack Obama’s wife was Black, and not the kind of rigid, palatable, ambiguous Black woman that America loves to hold up as proof of its diversity but an unambiguously Black, thicker-than-cold-grits, abundantly-melanated sister from the South Side, I melted. In the decade plus since Obama shot to political superstardom, I have been less than a fanatic of his policies, vocally critical even. But my disappointment in his performance as president has been in stark contrast to his performance as a family man and husband. I expect any man to adore his wife, but Obama’s unabashed adoration and gushing over the woman he referred to as the “brilliant, funny, generous woman who, for whatever reason, agreed to marry” him is the wildest dream of my wildest dreams of love. The unimaginable sacrifice Michelle Obama made in allowing her entire life to be scrutinized, demonized, judged and laid bare for a public largely relentless in its brutal racism and misogynoir has been repaid by her husband with the dreamiest intimate gazes from a podium before millions. The man she met nearly 30 years ago when she was assigned to mentor him as a summer associate at the law firm where she practiced has shown his appreciation for her . 17thsoulja

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Ladies and gents lemme holla at y'all. It's a way to argue. It's a way to NOT argue. U could get into a argument and say things that can never, ever be taken back. Example: ladies if u dating a man who make a modest salary, be very careful about rubbing that in his face. Now hold up. What if he spending recklessly? Sit down and say "baby - we need to talk about calibrating the amount of spending we do in this house to the amount of money coming in." See how that goes? Constructive. Now u could also say "NEW JORDANS?! LOL WITH WHOSE PAYCHECK?! NOT YOUR LIL ASS PAYCHECK, OL BROKE BOY LOOKIN ASS." I wouldn't recommend that. Men - y'all got areas where u need to be careful too. She putting on a few pounds? U gotta be very delicate. "Aye baby I know you mentioned not having time to work out? U think we could hit the gym together? 🤔" Bam. U left the weight issue out. U hit it from a health angle. Good on u. What I would NOT recommend: "LOL ANOTHER CUPCAKE? YOU DON'T EVEN EXERCISE! BABY...YOUR THIGHS?" Bruh lemme just be crystal clear. U just said some shit that cannot be taken back. Ever. And that, ladies and gents, is where I'm tryina take y'all. It's some shit u can say that can't ever be taken back. The other person might forgive u, but forgiveness shouldn't be assumed. In fact the baseline reality of the human spirit is that it's weak, and so people fall into common traps of envy, hatred, and inability to forgive. Be very wary of the discourse degenerating irreparably. It is the basis upon which a lot of good relationships have fractured and never repaired. Your words are a weapon. Be judicious with them. (And men, no offense, if yo girl put on a few pounds and u talk to her like she Ms. Piggy she gon find me and imma lay this pipe the way it deserve to be laid. Imma make her feel like a cot damn rap video vixen like the type that frolick around Drake's pool touching their booties with other girl's booties, as if that's some shit women do at a regular pool party. Bottom line, don't make me smash your girl dog I will do it. Fair warning 😘. Bless up! 😍😂😂😂): gimme @Drsmashlove Ladies and gents lemme holla at y'all. It's a way to argue. It's a way to NOT argue. U could get into a argument and say things that can never, ever be taken back. Example: ladies if u dating a man who make a modest salary, be very careful about rubbing that in his face. Now hold up. What if he spending recklessly? Sit down and say "baby - we need to talk about calibrating the amount of spending we do in this house to the amount of money coming in." See how that goes? Constructive. Now u could also say "NEW JORDANS?! LOL WITH WHOSE PAYCHECK?! NOT YOUR LIL ASS PAYCHECK, OL BROKE BOY LOOKIN ASS." I wouldn't recommend that. Men - y'all got areas where u need to be careful too. She putting on a few pounds? U gotta be very delicate. "Aye baby I know you mentioned not having time to work out? U think we could hit the gym together? 🤔" Bam. U left the weight issue out. U hit it from a health angle. Good on u. What I would NOT recommend: "LOL ANOTHER CUPCAKE? YOU DON'T EVEN EXERCISE! BABY...YOUR THIGHS?" Bruh lemme just be crystal clear. U just said some shit that cannot be taken back. Ever. And that, ladies and gents, is where I'm tryina take y'all. It's some shit u can say that can't ever be taken back. The other person might forgive u, but forgiveness shouldn't be assumed. In fact the baseline reality of the human spirit is that it's weak, and so people fall into common traps of envy, hatred, and inability to forgive. Be very wary of the discourse degenerating irreparably. It is the basis upon which a lot of good relationships have fractured and never repaired. Your words are a weapon. Be judicious with them. (And men, no offense, if yo girl put on a few pounds and u talk to her like she Ms. Piggy she gon find me and imma lay this pipe the way it deserve to be laid. Imma make her feel like a cot damn rap video vixen like the type that frolick around Drake's pool touching their booties with other girl's booties, as if that's some shit women do at a regular pool party. Bottom line, don't make me smash your girl dog I will do it. Fair warning 😘. Bless up! 😍😂😂😂)
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