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Advice, Being Alone, and Bad: Don't commit long term to someone until you've seen them stuck in traffic. Until you've witnessed them dealing with slow internet connection, building an IKEA furniture set, or disappointed from their favorite team's loss. Don't marry until you've seen them completely drunk, waiting for food in a restaurant for entirely too long, or watched them search for their phone or car keys in a panic. Before you say yes to forever, see them angry. See them sick, scared, and focused. Notice when and what they want, when they lose, their patience is tested, and when they are stressed. You can't really change someone, but you can reveal them Sometimes people didn't actually change later down the line. Perhaps you just never really knew who they truly were. embyrr922: call-cocaine: this is good I'd just like to add, see how they behave when they're angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they're calm, and then talk to them about it. My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but afterl explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration. When I'm upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel ike I'm mad at him, so now when I need some space, I'll tell him what I'm upset about, or that I'm in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while. See your friends and partners at their worst, but don't assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they'll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability. Relationship advice

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Advice, Being Alone, and Bad: Don't commit long term to someone until you've seen them stuck in traffic. Until you've witnessed them dealing with slow internet connection, building an IKEA furniture set, or disappointed from their favorite team's loss. Don't marry until you've seen them completely drunk, waiting for food in a restaurant for entirely too long, or watched them search for their phone or car keys in a panic. Before you say yes to forever, see them angry. See them sick, scared, and focused. Notice when and what they want, when they lose, their patience is tested, and when they are stressed. You can't really change someone, but you can reveal them Sometimes people didn't actually change later down the line. Perhaps you just never really knew who they truly were. embyrr922: call-cocaine: this is good I'd just like to add, see how they behave when they're angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they're calm, and then talk to them about it. My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but afterl explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration. When I'm upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel ike I'm mad at him, so now when I need some space, I'll tell him what I'm upset about, or that I'm in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while. See your friends and partners at their worst, but don't assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they'll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability. Relationship advice

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