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Bad, Clothes, and Confidence: <p><a href="http://kurtwagnermorelikekurtwagnerd.tumblr.com/post/173212536306/pyrogothnerd-the-disney-elite-fullyferal" class="tumblr_blog">kurtwagnermorelikekurtwagnerd</a>:</p><blockquote> <p><a href="http://pyrogothnerd.tumblr.com/post/172797800788/the-disney-elite-fullyferal-violet-parr" class="tumblr_blog">pyrogothnerd</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://the-disney-elite.tumblr.com/post/172796039012/fullyferal-violet-parr-everyone-the-true-hero" class="tumblr_blog">the-disney-elite</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://fullyferal.tumblr.com/post/172398476855/violet-parr-everyone-the-true-hero-of-this" class="tumblr_blog">fullyferal</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>Violet Parr, everyone. The true hero of this movie.</p></blockquote> <p>I want an Incredibles 2 where Violet suddenly wakes up and realizes, ‘Why did I think wearing pink sweaters and dating some popular kid was AN IMPROVEMENT?!’ Then she goes back to being the quirky, smart girl she was at the start, only now she’s more badass than before because she realizes there was NOTHING WRONG WITH WHO SHE WAS!!!</p> <p>(Seriously, am I the only one who hates how they ended her story in pt. 1?)</p> </blockquote> <p>You SEVERELY misunderstand Violet’s entire dang story arc, and her characterization at the beginning of the film.</p> <p>Like, I think you need to rewatch the film. At the beginning of the film, she was scared, self conscious, etc. Those aren’t “quirks” those were her hiding her quirks because she was afraid. </p> <p>Her story arc was about gaining confidence. The wearing of brighter colors was symbolic of that. If you look at concept art, she was meant to be huddled, scared, trying not to be seen, etc. Those dark clothes are meant to show her trying to “blend in” and be less noticed.</p> <figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="413" data-orig-width="620"><img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/077ed9da31035f335bfecbb44004b1ca/tumblr_inline_p6zbkypRNc1twv21i_540.jpg" data-orig-height="413" data-orig-width="620"/></figure><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="263" data-orig-width="383"><img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/eb05effc6728445177f798a7ee56200d/tumblr_inline_p6zaimEgII1twv21i_540.jpg" data-orig-height="263" data-orig-width="383"/></figure><p>That’s also why in the beginning, she lets her hair fall in front of her face: She’s trying TO HIDE. Think about it, she wants to be “normal” instead of embracing her powers, she wants to fit in, etc. </p> <p>Look at her body language during <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgzWLsR-6PI">this scene</a>. Notice how she doesn’t want to talk, she mumbles, she won’t even eat. Something is bothering her, but she doesn’t want to admit it. She constantly looks sad. Heck, I’m kind of mad at Helen in this scene for not acknowledging it. Violet’s body language is FREAKING OBVIOUS, any mother should be able to spot it, and ask what the frick is wrong, but Helen’s so preoccupied with trying to be a “normal” family that she completely ignores any signs that something is wrong.</p> <p>And then we get to the problem: When Violet screams about how no one in the family is “normal” </p> <p>“We ACT normal, Mom! I wanna BE normal!” and Dash even agrees, because of the pressure to act “normal” that is put on him.<br/></p> <p>She doesn’t want to “be herself” she wants to “fit in”</p> <p>She has basically been told her whole life to hide who she is, hide her powers, etc to keep the family safe. She’s barely allowed to express herself, something Helen acknowledges later in the film indirectly by apologizing for putting pressure on Violet. She’s not just talking about the plane crash, she’s talking about what she’s basically done to Violet and Dash THEIR ENTIRE FREAKING LIVES. She basically did the same dang thing Elsa’s parents did in Frozen: “Conceal, don’t feel, don’t let it show” but she never gets called out on it, because she doesn’t die before realizing her mistake and fixing it.</p> <p>That’s why after the talk with her Mom, it’s SO DANG IMPORTANT that she pulls her hair back: SHE’S DONE HIDING WHO SHE IS. She’s DONE trying to pretend to be normal. She realizes she is someone incredible, and is finally willing to embrace that.</p> <p>Later, when she’s wearing bright clothes, it symbolizes she’s no longer afraid of being seen. She’s willing to stand out instead of blend into the background. Seriously, this is some basic cinematography symbolism, here, it’s one of the first things you learn in a film-as-literature class. Her outfit change didn’t mark a change in</p> <p><b>Violet doesn’t become a different person. She learns to be confident with who she is. </b></p> <p> She didn’t change who she was. She gained confidence. Confidence to talk to the boy without turning invisible. Confidence to ask him out. The moral of her story wasn’t “LOL those darn introverts need to be extroverts” the moral was “You can do whatever you set your mind to. If you can stop a literal supervillain, you can freaking ask the dang boy out.” <br/></p> </blockquote> <p>I think it’s also really interesting that Violet’s two powers are to hide and to build barriers. </p> </blockquote> <p>Holy shit how do you miss the point of Violet that bad to the point that you think who she was at the beginning of the first movie was any kind of goal? She wasn’t some quiet genius who just preferred dark clothes, she was socially anxious wreck.</p>

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Bad, Family, and Parents: M A BECAUSE Thats what my parents are and I dor feelthe need to question it PhotoGrid M A BECAUSE l don't understand what its like to be a minority and I dont care PhotoGrid M A BECAUSE I dont want to admit l have and abuse my privileges in society as a white man PhotoGrid <p><a href="http://eltigrechico.tumblr.com/post/175290020309/republicans-directly-try-to-explain-legitimate" class="tumblr_blog">eltigrechico</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Republicans: *Directly try to explain legitimate reasons they and other decent people might have for being a Republican*</p> <p><span style='font-family: "Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;'>Liberals: *Cover it up with MS Paint and fill in “BECAUSE I’M A BAD PERSON”*</span></p> <figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="457" data-orig-width="542"><img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/461520e95b1270d159db30fb79eabcc2/tumblr_inline_payk0f7qbk1qkbsaa_540.png" data-orig-height="457" data-orig-width="542"/></figure><p>- Jonathan Haidt, <i>The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion</i>, pg. 287</p> <p>Hmmmmm… Wonder why it is liberals have such a hard time understanding their political opponents fairly???</p> </blockquote>

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Life, LinkedIn, and Mood: 69% 23:30 K- create revenue growth | Sales Strategy | Behaviour Change. 13h I was attacked! A random attack in a bar, several years ago. It left me unconscious and in the hands of a neuroscience specialist. That moment changed my life forever, For the GOOD! While being tested the consultant discovered something which has been a blessing. Up until that moment, I knew I was good at Maths, and my IQ was above average, but that was it I had a rare Brain type was being told that my brain wasn't normal. How does anyone know their version of normal is, well, normal? I soon gave up traditional work, knowing that I have always done well in my career as I took the 'traditional process' and added the perspective of behaviours to it... but what if my theories and idea were truly unique? I needed to explore that. l wanted to know how humans make decisions and how that changes based on the product service, time of day, mood and emotions l explored the conscious and unconscious mind looking at eave your thoughts here... 69% 23:30 K- marketing, sales, culture, strategy and complicated stuff like addiction, trauma and abuse Here l am 3.5 years later with 22 case studies under my belt, results ranging between 60-700% above industry average benchmarks Everyone is a little bit weird. We just have to give ourselves permission to follow our dreams Now to do the same for an employer! #ONO 39 likes 6 comments Like Comment Share Likes Comments Sort by Top C LATAM Account Manager now I'll take Things That Didn't Happen' for $1000 please, Alex Leave your thoughts here... Neuroscientist discovers LinkedIn user's rare brain type.

Neuroscientist discovers LinkedIn user's rare brain type.

Bucket List, Chicago, and Cute: SOME COFFEB LEASE,DEARE Do not call a waitress dearte" or *honey" She is not yorr dearie or honey because she is obliged to wait upon you.-A Waitress <p><a href="http://suchdreadfullittlethingsweare.tumblr.com/post/174385205587/libertarirynn-lokispriestess" class="tumblr_blog">suchdreadfullittlethingsweare</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="https://libertarirynn.tumblr.com/post/174384885189/lokispriestess-yesterdaysprint-chicago" class="tumblr_blog">libertarirynn</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://lokispriestess.tumblr.com/post/173698176463/yesterdaysprint-chicago-tribune-illinois" class="tumblr_blog">lokispriestess</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://yesterdays-print.com/post/173531219079/chicago-tribune-illinois-september-20-1925" class="tumblr_blog">yesterdaysprint</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>Chicago Tribune, Illinois, September 20, 1925</p></blockquote> <p>women for at least the last 80 years: don’t call me pet names if you don’t know me, it’s demeaning<br/><br/>men: oh all of a SUDDEN you can’t call a waitress “sweetheart” or “dear” what is this NEW feminist bullshit<br/><br/>everybody about any guy over 40: oh he’s from a different time, it was normal back then! He doesn’t mean anything by it!</p> </blockquote><p>OK but speaking of someone from the South I’ve been called “honey“, “sweetheart“, “dear“, and a host of other pet names by nearly every older male AND female that I have ever met. I never really thought anything of it.</p></blockquote> <p>Personally I <b>LOVE</b>. When anyone calls me a pet name. Boys, girls, talking parrots, I don’t care. I think it’s cute. </p><p>One of the things on my bucket list is for an English guy to call me love. I’d faint. </p></blockquote> <p>One time in Australian waiter called me “love“ and I died 1000 deaths.</p>

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