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Advice, Android, and Apparently: AITA for telling my fwb that I think she should lower her physical standards? (self.AmItheAsshole) AITA for telling my fwb that I think he should lower his physical standards? (self.AmItheAsshole) 4 submitted 5 hours ago by Lrituna to /AmItheAsshole submitted 1 month ago by whitegh7 129 comments share save hide report [removed by moderators]nsfb I have been seeing my friends with benefits Kara for a while now, almost 8 months. We used to work together, now before you guys ask no she does not have a crush on me or emotionally likes me. I have been seeing my friends with benefits George for a while now, almost 8 months. We used to work together, now before you guys ask no he does not have a crush on me or emotionally likes me. She has been single for a while and wants a guy similar to me if that makes sense, has a decent career etc, in decent he has been single for a while and wants a girl similar to me if that makes sense, has a decent career etc, in decent shape. shape. Now honestly I think she is punching too high when it comes to a relationship. She wants a guy that is in pretty good shape and tall but she is neither, she wants a guy with a good career but she is still in close to an entry level position. Now honestly I think he is pûnching too high when it comes to a relationship.He wants a girl that is in pretty good shape and tall but he is neither, he wants a girl with a good career but he is still in close to an entry level position I told her that she should focus less on physical traits like looks and be willing to look past them when dating guys. She asked me if I was telling her to lower her standards and I was like sort of. She got super offended and then proceeded to block me on ig. I told him that he should focus less on physical traits like looks and be willing to look past them when dating girls. He asked me if I was telling him to lower his standards and I was like sort of. He got super offended and then proceeded to block me on ig. And has now told a mutual friend what I said but in much harsher words. I don't think I was an asshole here? And has now told a mutual friend what I said but in much harsher words. I don't think I was an asshole here? 23 comments share save hide give award report crosspost -] Mamachaos46 Colo-rectal Surgeon [38] 93 points 1 month ago [] turkybits Partassipant [1] I think NTA 197 points 4 hours ago Yep, YTA. "hey friend, you are a 4 and you're trying to bag an 8? HAHA" permalink embed save report give award reply I dont think of it as lowering his standards i just feel like its sorta shallow to be like that. Like sure you have a [-] rogeliana 58 points 1 month ago preference but if its that specific. Its like personality is preferred but not required. Its just unhealthy. Id tell a friend if they were obsessed with something like that. I can have opinions lol Asshole Aficionado [10] Yeah. I think we're on the same page here. permalink embed save report give award reply I'll add, "You're attractive enough for me to enjoy a FWB relationship with, but seriously, your looks are meh." Sure, [-] fuzzyeyeball 62 points an hour ago* that always goes over really well. This is a shit post. The OP only changed the original pronouns. Here the OG: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/db03qr/aita_for_telling_my_fwb_that_i_think_she_should/? utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share permalink enmbed save parent report give award reply [-] rogeliana Asshole Aficionado [10]46 points 1 month ago* YTA permalink embed save parent report give award reply Don't tell people stuff like that. It never works out. You should have enough horse sense to know this by now. "You're - Farmer_Susan 35 points an hour ago an unattractive loser and that's why you shouldn't have standards." LOL. Yeah no. Good catch, I've seen a couple of these pronoun swaps before. Weird how the other one wass a ton of YTA but this one is NTA. Wonder why. She may not be realistic about her expectations. It happens a lot with both men and women. The rule of thumb is that you should bring an equal amount of value to the table. It's possible that she doesn't bring as much to the table as she expects from her potential partner. And, she made comments to you which invited feedback. So there's that. permalink embed save parent report give award reply [-] Rumplesniffskin 144 points 3 hours ago I mean he is literally banging you. Someone who is apparently what he likes. But then again, she may not be as deficient in the looks dept as you believe. If her looks are that below par, I don't know why you are involved with her at all, even on a FWB context. That's probably what she's thinking too, TBH. So What's to say he won't find someone similar who wants to emotionally commit also? really maybe YTA. conversation about dating standards, but I do think your po NTA because it's fine to have ion is bizarre Edit: changed to YTA. She's cute enough to bang but not to date. Yeah, nobody ever has a problem with that! LOL! permalink embed save report give award reply permalink embed save report give award reply [-] readinngredhead 21 points 4 hours ago -] unwritten_otter 34 points 1 month ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] NTA as I can see below he was asking you for advice. I think a mild YTA. You're sleeping with her but wouldn't date her. She's interesting in dating someone similar to you (or maybe she actually was hinting at dating you). It's kind of rubbing salt into a wound to say someone like me might want to sleep with you but would never consider dating you. permalink embed save report give award reply If she was asking for dating advice then it's understandable you wanted to be so honest. But for future reference most people don't want to hear "lower your standards." permalink embed save report give award reply Same post gender swapped in AITA. Man is an asshole, the women is isn't.
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