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Beautiful, Energy, and Fake: How do narcissists "pick" their supply? Do they have emotional antennae that allow them to hone in on their prey? Gary Watson, BE Engineering, Vanderbilt University Answered Nov 3 5 things generally a narcissist looks for in a partner. And yes, they have emotional antennae up to detect these traits more so than you could ever believe. 1. Devotion to the concept of love - the more caring, loving you are, the better and more long lasting your energy supply appears 2. Compassionate Person - same, you'll put up with more 3. Decent Person - same, you give the narc a fake shell for the moment while they drain you 4. Has a moral compass - the narc loves this because they get to learn so much about the rest of us from this person. And, how to smear you in the end 5. Caring and empathetic - you'll overlook years of abuse, allow yourself to be triangulated, all while somehow thinking it is your fault. A side note, if you live away from family, have a close but small group of friends, maybe some of them aren't near you geographically, and you have these traits, watch out for the covert narcissist. These virtues plus their ability to isolate vou will make your energy supply irresistible to the covert narc. 45.8k Views View Upvoters Answer requested by Jennifer Heim-Ewen for those of you who are caring, empathetic, and always want to help- just be aware that there are people out there who if given the chance will use your most beautiful character traits and use it to their advantage. 

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Apparently, Bad, and Bored: Woman Asks Why A Guy She Turned Down Didn't Try Harder, Gets The Perfect Response Like Bored Panda on FB Like 13M 4 days ago by Rokas A guy invites a girl on a date, tries all of his best moves, but she says no. A guy has to move on, otherwise, it's harassment. Unless it isn't? Recently, a girl surprised the internet when she posted a question on Quora, asking why her date wasn't a mind reader. She wrote, "A guy asked me out today and I told him "no', but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?" Naturally, a question like this deserves something more than a simple answer, an answer that's written in the same language. Luckily, Ron Rule typed a response the inquirer should've understood. Scroll down to check out what he wrote! Someone surprised Quora with a strange question A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again? Luckily, this guy responded with an example the inquirer had to understand Ron Rule, CEO @ As Seen On TV L+ Answered Feb 3 A girl asked me what I wanted for lunch and I said "pizza", but I really wanted steak. Why did she bring me pizza? CS. Do you see how stupid that question sounds? That's how your question sounds. Amused by the exchange, people started sharing their own experiences Malovus 5 pts I had a girl dump me once, a month later she started sending me angry texts about how I didn't fight to keep her and she was only testing me FriendlyNeighborhoodUrologist 1,153 pts Same scenario happened to me a year back. She freaked out "what do you mean 'Ok' don't you want to keep me?" BobLeeSw4ger 20 pts I asked a girl out. Was declined. She told my brother i took it like a gentleman. Little flirt later guess who got that date. MrFnortner 336 pts My wife does that. Her: You want chicken or salman? Me: Salmon. Her: Well I need to cook the chicken before it spoils. Me: Well, why did... Icommentandpostmypets 4,516 pts Play stupid games, win nothing of value. Had a ex do this. Dated a month, asked me to just be friends. Said sure. Got mad I didn't fight. MakingYouReadThingsInSamElliottsVoice 15 pts "No means no, except when a guy is supposed to read minds and know it doesn't, but it may later mean no, unless the girl changes her mind." intaglioguy 9 pts "I wanted to play games. He didn't play along. I've de- cided to blame him so I can avoid personal responsibil- ity for my actions." TheGirlInTheFireplace 7 pts No, sh't like this pisses me off. My last gf of 8 years left me on the day I was going out to buy a ring for her because she 'didn't feel wanted enough'. It tore me apart inside but I learned to move on. Kinda. A few months later she texted me and told me the reason she left me was because she wanted me to chase after her. I WANTED TO SO BADLY but I thought "It's over" meant it was over. No one will <p><a href="http://the-memeblades-chosen-one.tumblr.com/post/171072958064/celticpyro-eeveelutionsforequality" class="tumblr_blog">the-memeblades-chosen-one</a>:</p><blockquote> <p><a href="http://celticpyro.tumblr.com/post/171069509284/eeveelutionsforequality-someoneintheshadow446" class="tumblr_blog">celticpyro</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://eeveelutionsforequality.tumblr.com/post/171057059312/someoneintheshadow446-apparently-this-isnt-a-bad" class="tumblr_blog">eeveelutionsforequality</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://someoneintheshadow446.tumblr.com/post/171056525840/apparently-this-isnt-a-bad-stereotype-from" class="tumblr_blog">someoneintheshadow446</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>Apparently this isn’t a bad stereotype from sitcoms and that real women who do this exist. </p></blockquote> <p>It’s not just women, I’ve dated women and guys who do this. I’m not the kind of person who “fights for” anybody - if they say that they’re leaving, of course I’ll ask why and talk it through with them, but I’m not going to buy a bouquet and appear at their door at 3am to try to get something from them that they said they didn’t want to give. The amount of times that I’ve heard “If you really loved me, you’d fight for me.” and I’ve been like “Well, if I really respected you and cared for you then I’d want you to be happy, rather than wanting you to do whatever it is that I want you to do.” and they come out with “So, what, you don’t want to be with me?” and I’m like “It’s not about what I want. If I wanted somebody’s watch and they didn’t want to give me the watch, I wouldn’t just take the watch. This is no different.” and then they push and push like “Just tell me that you want to be with me and I’ll stay.” and I’m like “I’m not going to do that, I want you to do what will make you happy.” and then I get called a heartless psychopath who never loved them and will never love anybody… so that’s fun. </p> <p>~ Vape </p> </blockquote> <p>Just…don’t do this. This is bad. Communicate clearly, some people will think you actually mean what you say and others are struggling with social skills enough. If you want to stay, stay. Don’t say ‘no’ and expect someone to not respect your answer. Heck, why would you WANT someone to not respect your boundaries?</p> <p>Stuff like this ruins the legitimacy of ‘No means no’ and #MeToo. <br/></p> </blockquote> <p><i><a href="http://the-memeblades-chosen-one.tumblr.com/post/170364684149/maybe-heshe-is-just-playing-hard-to-get-ok">throw back to what I said about mind games/“playing hard to get”</a></i></p> </blockquote> <p>I knew someone in my church girls small group when I was a young teenager who bragged about how her mother purposely cut off all communication with her father (before they were together) in order to see how hard he would work to contact her. I distinctly remember saying I thought that was stupid and everyone else in the room shooting me down and saying it was romantic and great that she was “playing hard to get“ to “get him to pursue her“ and honestly screw that noise. Life‘s too short for head games and in this climate especially guys would be a whole lot less inclined to keep pursuing a woman who declined them for fear of being accused of something insidious. Just be honest, people.</p>
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Life, Omg, and Target: l don't know what you guys are complaining about... If you want to make it through, JUST BE YOURSELF! CHARLIEBINK.TUMBLR.COM fuerzabella: dookiediamonds: palestinianliberator: setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain: sonic-hip-attack: canikon-bokeh: Exactly.  Imagine a wall full of circular holes, that circles can keep walking in and out of with no difficulty. Now imagine that the triangles manage to get the resources together, after years of not being able to fit through the circle’s holes, to drill a single triangle space into the wall. Now imagine that the circle — who previously supported the triangle’s efforts because they are well-rounded (har) and value equality —  comes along and sees the construction project. But instead of being happy, they get angry. “Well, I won’t be able to fit through your hole!!!!” the circle cries. “I helped you get the drill!!!!” the circle shrieks. “Make it fit me too!!!!” the circle demands. The triangles, barely holding it together enough to get a triangle hole together, stare at the circle in confusion.  “You have all the holes you need,” the triangles explain. “This is for us. You don’t need to fit through our hole, too.” “YOU’RE BEING UNEQUAL AND HURTING MY FEELINGS!” the circle wails. “I DON’T SUPPORT YOUR HOLE IF IT DOESN’T FIT ME TOO. GIVE ME MY DRILL BACK.”  “It’s not your drill, it’s our drill. You helped us get it, because you said you cared.” “I ONLY CARED WHEN I THOUGHT YOU’D MAKE A HOLE EVERYONE COULD FIT THROUGH. YOU’RE PERPETUATING INEQUALITY!!!” “Why is it up to us, the small group that has never been able to fit through the wall at all, to make a hole everyone can use? Why isn’t it up to you, the people who have been able to cross back and forth at will for years? We just want to see the other side; why are you yelling at us?” “I DIDN’T ASK TO BE BORN A CIRCLE, OMG. I’VE HAD TO WORK HARD ALL MY LIFE TOO. YOU’RE JUST BEING BIGOTED AGAINST ME BECAUSE OF SOMETHING I CAN’T CONTROL, JUST LIKE EVERYONE IS AGAINST YOU.” “You are interfering with our project and asking us to comfort you while we’re trying to make progress. Please leave.” “I’m going to tell everyone about this,” the circle warns. “Nobody will support you now.” “Apparently nobody ever did,” the triangles sigh, getting back to work. It’s kind of sad That we have to draw comics using colorful shapes To explain systematic inequality to people Reblogging again because yes good Systematic Inequality : 101 After heterosexual pride day trending this would be a good way of presenting it to people who don’t get it

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Bored, Confused, and Fake: voxeterna1 So I'm a music teacher and every year we have what are called "walk through observations. Basically, this means that 4 times a year the principal or vice principal comes into my class to assess my teaching. Fine. Sure. No problem. Well, today I was doing an activity with my 1st graders called·Musical Groceries". Basically, they make up a fake shopping list and then together we figure out what the rhythm of the words on the list is. To do that, a small group of students plays the beat on the conga drum while the rest of the students move around the room while chanting the word. It sounds weird but it's a great way for the kids to figure out the relationship between syllables and thythm. They quickly get bored of walking the rhythm so I let them come up with their own ways of moving around the room.( skipping, hopping, etc) One student suggested they hop around the room like frogs, way down low to the ground. Okay fine. Or it was fine until my vice principal walked in to do my observation only to find 20 seven year olds hopping around the room like a hoard of little hob-goblins, rhythmically chanting "BREADI BREADI BREADI while five other kids played ominous beats in a drum circle I have never seen anyone look so confused in my life and I really don't want to know the rating I got on my observation O Text Quelle: voxetema1 50.053 Anmerkungen My mum just used the phrase "bodice ripper" in a sentence I'm dead

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Doctor, Homeless, and Memes: VETERANS COME FIRST ALL owN FOUR CAR TAKE FIRST VETERANS REFUGEES CHECK ON AVET LIKE IF YOU AGREE A group of about 20 veterans and supporters gathered Saturday at the Westmoreland County Courthouse in downtown Greensburg to counter recent protests against President Trump's immigration orders. Organizer Lance Baird, 48, a Navy veteran who worked as an intelligence specialist in Afghanistan in the mid-1990s, said the nation should give priority to the needs of its veterans rather than taking in refugees. “Don't you think we should take care of our own first before you worry about anyone else?” he said. Baird of Greensburg expressed concern about homeless veterans and those with inadequate medical care. He said the Department of Veterans Affairs needs more money to better serve veterans, noting some experience long waits to see a doctor. “Instead of spending billions on bringing over people that we know don't like our culture and our way of life, why don't we take care of our own first who put their lives on the line to make our country as safe as it is?” he asked. I'm 100% supportive of Mr. Baird and I'm very glad to know that at least a small group of patriots rose in support of Trump. This is disgraceful that left-wing radicals organize riots and demonstrations across the country, and those who voted for Trump are silent. Veterans' problems are much more important to America than the problems of refugees, and Trump's policy to expel criminals from the country is the right policy. An unprecedented media attack is organized against Trump because he is trying to protect Americans. I call on all the American patriots to stand strong for Trump and support him in all his undertakings. veteranscomefirst veterans_us Veterans Usveterans veteransUSA SupportVeterans Politics USA America Patriots Gratitude HonorVets thankvets supportourtroops semperfi USMC USCG USAF Navy Army military godblessourmilitary soldier holdthegovernmentaccountable RememberEveryoneDeployed Usflag StarsandStripes

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Comfortable, Disappointed, and Memes: EVERYTHING YOU NEED IS ON THE OTHERSIDE OF FEAR @MILLIONAIRE MENTOR The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step. Here are 5 ways to help you get started: 1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone. In other words: What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure? Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. 2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome. Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear. How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific. 3. Get comfortable with discomfort. One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort. Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. 4. See failure as a teacher. Many of us are so afraid of failure, that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams. Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success? 5. Take baby steps. Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in. Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends. millionairementor *double tap* if you read EVERYTHING and appreciate the value😉✔️

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that fi...

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